Session One. January 9 2003
Today was my first proper session with Peter since
meeting with him before Christmas. I have agreed to meet six times so he can
give me a full introduction to his work.
We spoke for a while, and it was then that he first
talked me through his ‘Head, Heart and Hara’
meditation. It was different to anything I had experienced before. I had never
thought about my awareness as something I could move. Although I have done many
different types of relaxation some of which get you to concentrate on different
areas of your body this was something else entirely.
Peter then asked me to open my eyes and keeping my
awareness in my hara, to look out
from my centre. I was feeling very relaxed but I wasn’t able to completely
switch my thinking head off. It was all strange to me but in a very nice way. I
felt very strongly in touch with myself, an inner self, in a way I had not
conceived of. He then asked me to look at him but although I tried I felt as
though I would lose the sense of self I had just discovered.
Peter then asked if I would be willing to try out
his special form of tantric pair meditation – resonation - and we moved to
sitting on stools opposite, face-to-face and eye-to-eye with each other. I
found this really difficult to do mainly because I felt uncomfortable with his
sitting so close to me. I could feel all sorts of old issues rising up within
me. He tried to get me to really look at him but I found it incredibly intimate
and felt paralysed inside. I experienced a feeling of being backed up against a
wall.
We moved back to the chairs and talked about what
had happened. I felt as though he had triggered within me my core issue. I couldn’t
help but reflect on how long it might take in psychotherapy before enough trust
was developed to talk about it. Yet I found myself telling this stranger about
my Black Hole, that sense within my being of incompleteness, my flaw, my deep
need. The private space that I try to fill with food although I know it won’t
even begin to satisfy the hunger that radiates from within.
He asked me if I would try again but this time I
could set the distance and would not have to do anything, he asked if I would
just try and show him how I felt. Well I thought I could do that and what an
amazing experience it turned out to be!
As I sat there in front of him I began to think
about the space within me that I think of as my Black Hole. I started to get in
touch with what it feels like to have such a space and ‘saw’ in my mind’s eye
what I imagined it would look like. Well was I surprised! I had always thought
in terms of a small neat little hole like the centre of a Polo mint. But I
found myself in a desert landscape cut across as far as I could see with this
bloody great chasm! Boy was I shocked and worried! How could it be that big?
How could I cope with having that at the centre of my being?
But amazingly enough I found that not only could I
cope with it I could stand there and feel it, experience it. Not only that but
I knew that somehow it was Peter’s gaze that was making it possible. He was
helping me to stay there, it was as though he was with me, supporting me. And
yet I could see him sitting opposite me at the same time.
And as I sat there looking at him looking back at me
I began to imagine ways to change the inner landscape I was also experiencing,
within me. I saw trees reaching out with wide green branches, growing up from
inside the bottomless crack, a beautiful oasis formed off to one side, palm
trees grew around a small still pool. I saw myself scatter handfuls of seeds
and watched as stately flowers developed in all the colours of the rainbow.
As time passed I found that I could breathe into my hara as Peter had been suggesting
earlier. As I did so I could feel this incredible energy like a deep lake, I
was sitting within it and I was aware that at the same time it was within me.
It was amazingly powerful and almost palpable, yet I found my head getting in
the way as my awareness kept jumping about. I wanted to stay connected to this
wonderful feeling yet it was so new to me I wasn’t sure what to do or how to
sustain it.
I had lost track of time when Peter broke the
contact. We sat for some moments in silence then he indicated we return to our
seats. I described my experience and he explained it in terms of a soul
landscape, similar to a shamanic journey and unusual so early. I do like to be
different! I also told him how I had felt like running for the hills but was so
glad I hadn’t.
There is a part of me that feels a connection to him
in a deep inner way. It was as if he looked into my soul and it felt amazing. I
don’t remember ever having had an experience that is remotely similar. I feel
different, as though something has shifted within me. I’m not sure if it was
because I dared to look at my Black Hole or the fact that Peter made it
possible. This hara meditation
certainly feels like a direct way to communicate and words seem inadequate to
describe it.
Peter has given me some of his writings on the
subject. It makes such sense to me. In the West we are just so wrapped up
within our heads that we have lost touch with another way to communicate. In
Japan they understand what it means to talk from your belly. They know that the
hara is the centre of the soul but we
think anything below the waist is sexual and have forgotten how to connect with
another being on a purely spiritual level. We have cut ourselves off from this
wonderful source of wisdom because of this interpretation. Each and every
one of us has within our being a gateway to our deeper selves. I see now that
my Black Hole was a portal to my inner being. I found the experience amazing
and I can’t wait to go back for more.
Session Two. 23rd January 2003.
We talked for a long time today. I told Peter some
of the changes I have noticed in myself since our first session, and those
which other people have observed. The main difference has been my mood. I have
felt much calmer and noticeably happier.
It is hard to explain the deep change I feel has
taken place. It is as though a different aspect of my being has woken up, an
aspect which is healthier. I have stopped wanting to eat sweet things and have
bought a fruit press. I start the day with fresh orange juice and have found it
quite natural to eat more fruit and vegetables and I feel fantastic.
I have told several of my friends about my
experience with Peter and fully expected them to ask for his phone number! If I
had been on the receiving end of such information I would want to find out more
for myself. Am I seeking on a deeper level? One friend said she admired my
bravery! Perhaps I overstated the anxiety I first experienced. The meditation
with Peter was so incredible I wish I could give them a taste of how I feel
inside, that I could communicate the change. I mentioned practicing the
meditation with me but no takers so far.
Today Peter introduced me to some of the practices
involved with this way of communication. These included techniques to tune into
the same wavelength as the other person via their facial expression. I hadn’t
thought about it in such terms before but obviously we communicate with our
faces and especially our eyes. If you form your own face into the same
expression, you are able to feel within your own body what feeling goes with
that expression. What an amazingly simple revelation! However, theory aside, I
couldn’t do it for laughing! I couldn’t get the hang of the vowel sounds
either. I don’t know how he stayed so patient with me because I was beginning
to irritate myself!!
Anyway he rescued me by suggesting we try another
eye-contact meditation. It was so much easier this time and I had no problem
with him sitting so close to me. It wasn’t such a visual experience this week
but I did have a sense of hearing and following someone singing. I was left
with the feeling I need to discover my inner voice. The meditation was
wonderful and I actually had to touch myself to reinforce my physicality as I
felt somewhat unbounded. This was apparently because I was in touch with my
soul, wow! I am again lost for words to describe the wonder of it. I almost
can’t believe looking into someone else’s eyes could be so incredibly powerful.
The man has such a gift. What would I give to be able to do this with other
people?
Peter explained afterwards about felt sounds and
some more about the vowel sounds he had tried to teach me earlier. He spoke
about the ‘tones’ of voice we use and how these are an inner expression of inner
tones of feeling. If we ‘tune into’ these moods as basic feeling tones of
awareness, we can become more aware of the condition of our inner being and
open up to the communication from the deeper aspects of ourselves. It all made
sense to me and I remembered reading about these in the material he gave me to
read last time.
We talked about the process of getting in touch with
the ‘felt sense’ of the other by taking on their facial expression and how this
creates a ‘resonance’ between their ‘being’ and your own. It really is quite
beautiful. I can’t help but feel what a shame it is that we don’t all
communicate with each other on that level. This life would not feel so lonely
if we could connect to our felt-sense of each other and that soul resonance.
Peter explained how the ‘resonation’ can be used for
healing. If you alter your own felt sense by breathing in light the other will
feel the change and ‘lighten’ in response. Amazing really but by god it works!
I tried to explain how I think I ‘work’ with people
on an intuitive level, kind of how I paint really. But I have a sense of being
behind a glass screen and not in-touch with my own body sense. I felt this was
why I had found the earlier exercises difficult. (That and the fact that I had
really wanted to do the eye-contact meditation again!!) I have a sense that
something important will happen through the meditation but I’m not sure what I
mean by that.
Session Three. 30th January 2003.
I asked to see Peter a week early because I had a
few odd experiences which bothered me. I had caused myself to worry and had
lost my sense of centre. I didn’t want to have to deal with it for another week
if it was alright to see him. I am not sure about boundary issues around this
work as my only frame of reference is psychotherapy. Anyhow he agreed to
see me.
I explained what had occurred and he put it down to
teething problems with this process. He asked me if I could get in touch with
the feelings I described and to show him while sitting opposite him in
resonation. Well I tried is all I can say. I looked everywhere for them. I took
myself back to try and recall the feelings of anxiety. In my mind’s eye I saw
myself enter a forbidding castle ruin, I looked down dark tunnels, went through
dark doorways, I even tried throwing myself off a cliff to see if I could
resurrect a sense of what I had experienced. Every time I felt I was getting
close the fear just evaporated.
I began to wonder if I had somehow concocted it all
as an excuse to see Peter earlier than arranged. I told him I couldn’t find the
feelings but we stayed in resonation. He began to give me instructions to
follow but I don’t remember many of them. I do recall the one to look into the
black of his eyes, to see the depth and safety within. I ‘saw’ the iron gate of
the forbidding castle dissolve, the castle dissolved, the earth itself
dissolved. I experienced myself within his eyes and at the same time floating
with him in endless space.
I felt myself surrounded and supported within a
larger aspect of my being. A feeling field of such incredible magnitude, a
sense of self that is no self. The ‘I’ that I think of as me seemed so
infinitesimally small in comparison to its vastness. I knew that it is not ‘I’
who ‘have’ a soul but that ‘I’ am part or portion of a soul – a larger
awareness - that has me as part of its expression. It was just the most amazing
experience and yet again the words I use can do no justice to it.
I remember saying to Peter that rather than teething
pains, birthing pains seemed more appropriate. I felt that this was what I had
wanted without even knowing it, that some aspect of my larger ‘being’ wanted me
to recognise it. I walked home in a snow blizzard without a care. I had never
experienced such a ‘high’ in my life. No one would ever take drugs if they
realised they could feel like this. I felt as though some new Me was looking
out from my eyes. I felt phenomenally peaceful and yet powerfully energised.
Session Four. 6th February 2003
Peter and I talked for two hours about colour and
related topics. Last week he had given me to read the chapter of one of his
books, all about colour. I found it really interesting especially Steiner’s
idea that the colour of the soul is blue.
I had wanted to show him the work I have been doing
for collage but I don’t have the car and I can’t carry the boards as they are
too heavy. I decided to do smaller versions using blue as the background. I did
three in the end with the intention to give him the one he likes best. My
reasons are several — the main one to thank him for what he has done for me. I
find it so hard to do justice to the profound changes I have experienced in the
brief time I have known him. It is no exaggeration to say that working with him
has changed my life and how I feel about myself. Every one around me has
noticed the changes. Not least the weight loss!!
I have been seeking for this kind of soul connection
and understanding for more years than I care to remember. Possibly it has been
my life search. I know that six sessions will not be enough for me and I am
hoping I will be able to carry on seeing him beyond then.
Another reason is because he gives me more time than
we originally agreed to and I want to give him a token of my time. The motifs I
have found myself developing in my art have been in direct response to this
work and I am hoping he will understand the symbols.
While I worked on the boards I found myself
reflecting on my sessions with Peter and wondering where they are leading to. I
have complete trust in him which in itself is strange considering the little
time we have known each other. Actually I feel sure we must have met in a
‘previous life’ as this connection seems very deep to me. Perhaps it is the
result of the resonation but I feel there is something more there. I feel as
though I have come home.
We talked about what I wanted from these
sessions and I said it was a good question!! He mentioned four possible
directions of potential development: myself, skills to work with others,
‘medium-ship’ or artist. I don’t think we have come to any conclusion. (When I
told this to Paula she asked if I had said; “All the above and more please”. I
think she knows what I am like!!!)
During today’s session Peter introduced me to the
use of colour during resonation. He suggested an exercise where I ‘tuned into’
the colour he ‘embodied’. He began with blue which he darkened and we moved
through the colours. Sometimes he told me what colour and I had already ‘felt’
the change, at others I ‘felt’ colours he didn’t mention but confirmed
afterwards that I was correct. It was quite exciting to be active in the
process rather than passive but my very activity prevented me from letting go
into the full experience.
After the resonation he told me of a lucid dream he
had 4/5 days earlier. He had been floating above a blue sea that he then
decided to sink into. He described the experience and it sounded wonderful. He
then told me how he had felt my soul while we had sat together and it too was
blue. I began to say that I had not felt it when I found myself within the
colour. I know I keep using the word but it really was most incredible. I was
within the colour, I was the colour and it was blissful. (Thinking about it as
I write this I am wondering if Peter sent it to me, I must ask him.)
In the end I left two boards with him, his favourite
as a gift and my favourite as a comparison. He seemed pleased and said he liked
them. I said in some way the three represent him, me and where we meet. We
talked about my art earlier in the session but I don’t remember much about it.
Especially after that amazing experience with blue, my soul is blue, how
fantastic! Strange how little I have used it unless mixed with red. I want to
know more about the colours as they are so crucial to my art work and my
knowledge based on the chakras is clearly limited. Peter’s work has many
dimensions to it and many influences not least that of Seth. The book he lent
me is brilliant: Seth Speaks, The Eternal Validity of the Soul.
Session Five. 20th February 2003.
This time between sessions has been weird and not
too pleasant at that. The day after my last visit I allowed myself to lose
touch with my centre and I haven’t been able to find it again. A combination of
hormones and feeling a lack of love in my life caused me to feel jealous and
trapped. But my loss of centre has actually caused me more concern and the
realisation that I have yet to learn how to hold on to it or regain it once
lost.
I tried to tell Peter where my head has been for the
last two weeks but for once I couldn’t spell it out so avoided the real issue.
I did tell him about the distance I feel towards my husband. Peter spoke about
the conflict between the inner and outer worlds. That if I am serious about
working with him then it is something I shall have to learn to deal with. I
assured him that I am serious. It was interesting because he certainly heard
what I was saying without me having to actually say it. I guess that is the logos that Heraclitus spoke of and Peter
quotes in his writing.
I felt as though in response to the changes I have
been experiencing I have been behaving a bit like a child with a torch. I have
been running around shining it in everyone’s eyes. Then it seems as if in the
last two weeks the shutters have been closed around the source. Peter quoted
Steiner who said one should not talk about esoteric experiences. Apparently the
root meaning of the word initiate was
closed mouthed one.
The trouble is I want to share it with everyone!! My
natural inclination has always been to pass on any knowledge I consider to be
worth having. I just feel this should be known. And people do ask me what I
have been doing because they see the changes in me. Not that I tell all to all
that ask, I always explore their openness to spiritual ideas. I am well aware
that I would be considered wacky by some if they heard half of what I know to
be true. Some people are not yet ready for the truth. Shame really, the human
race could do with opening their minds and their hearts a lot more.
We spoke about the focus of our work together and
the time we spend talking each week. It is usually three hours and he
originally said an hour and a half to two hours. I feel as if I push the
boundaries as I love talking to him so much. But it is a joint venture here as
he can talk as much as I and he could always ask me to leave. So I don’t feel
too guilty. He did say today that he loves talking to me and loves having me
there. I felt myself glow inside when he said that.
However there is a financial consideration for both
of us. He seems to see something in me that could be developed. I expressed a
wish to come every week but he has suggested keeping it at every other but he
will book three hours so there is a structure if a rather loose one!!. He
mentioned teaching me in a more formal way to train me in what he does. I so
want to learn but he made it clear that he doesn’t want to pressure me. He
knows money is an issue for me but I think it is worth it. This is not a luxury
but a necessity, my soul needs this like my body needs water. I can’t afford to
miss this opportunity. I’m so excited.
I did ask him about the blue experience last week
and he said something about catching me when my guard was down. So yes it came
from him. I also made an observation about the synchronicity between his dream
and my painting. He didn’t say anything about that and I’m not sure if the look
on his face meant he had or not made the same connection. Or if indeed he
didn’t agree. I’m sure he would have said though.
He had an exercise for me to do today and it felt
like pulling teeth. He asked me to ‘read’ the eyes of a guy in a photograph. I
had never noticed before what he was trying to get me to see. He said I will
have to trust him that such practices will help my development with the
resonation. I have always wanted to run before I can walk!! But of course I
trust him so I tried.
I got stuck with the idea that I was just projecting
my thoughts onto this guy but this lead to a crucial insight. My psychotherapy
training has caused me to think in terms of being an empty vase. A good
therapist is supposed to stay neutral and watch out for their own ‘stuff’ they
are in danger of projecting onto the client. I realised this is the glass wall
I experienced during our resonation in the second session. My bloody training
is getting in the way of this process. This is all about feeling with yourself,
your body and your very being, needing to be able to read the reflection of the
other within yourself. You can’t do that behind a glass wall it is just too
impersonal. No wonder therapy takes so long. You may as well talk to a brick
wall as to an analyst!!!!
The trouble is the glass wall is a handicap to me
being able to read myself and be open to the silent communications from my hara. I shall have to take action!!!
Journal entries: 23rd February - 3rd March 2003.
Over the weekend after seeing Peter I started
walking. It was partly in reaction to something in Seth and just because I
wanted to. As I walked I experimented with shifting my consciousness and
sometimes would stop to check if my awareness was centred in my hara. It became a walking meditation. I
would notice how I was walking and use it to get in touch with my inner
being. I began to see my body as an outer reflection of my inner state and
to teach myself how to read it. I plan to walk at least twice or three times a
week. As the mornings lighten I shall try to go after my morning meditation.
The thing is I am often meditating for an hour now and I get up at six as it
is. Oh well I will just have to try.
I have been visualising smashing my glass wall and
breaking the vase.
Monday.
As I sat to meditate this morning I couldn’t shake
the feeling that I owed Peter some money so I wrote him a letter. I mentioned
pushing the boundaries but also not really knowing where they are. I also told
him about the deep connection I feel with him. I didn’t do a copy and I don’t
remember any more of what I wrote. I tried to send him a psychic message that a
letter was on its way.
Before I went to sleep I asked my dreaming self to
also attempt a communication. This is what I dreamt:
I hand delivered the letter on a Saturday. He had
another client with him who I thought saw me. When walking home I noticed some
large white flowers like enormous crocus but I didn’t go too close as I was
‘walking’. I did however look very closely at a purple one as I passed it. The
petals were like mulberry paper, semi translucent with veins. I thought about
how my friend Annie would love to photograph
them.
Tuesday.
Peter phoned to say I did not owe him any money. I
was at work so he left a message with Steve. (He did not ask what it was about
so I didn’t tell him.) Peter had also said I could call back and I tried but he
was with someone.
Wednesday.
Spoke briefly to Peter as he called back just as we
were going to leave for Canterbury. Steve and the children were in the room and
I felt inhibited. He made reference to my comment about not really knowing what
our sessions are about. I said something about being a bit in the dark, he
replied there is more to tell me but he has been waiting for certain things to
occur. One being my finishing the Seth book he lent me, I told him I finished
it at the weekend. He then asked if he has told me of his connection with the
Seth material. I responded in the negative. He has an historical and
biographical connection to tell me about! I can’t wait. I told him I don’t have
a problem with anything Seth has to say and that I had planned to look for his
books today. Peter said I can borrow his. That will be nice! It was lovely just
to hear his voice. It reconnected me. I am so sure we have known each other
before. I really want to ask him about it.
Thursday
I have been working on my anger today, prompted by a
phone conversation with a friend. I had told her of the tension in my neck and
she mentioned it as being a storing area for anger. Well it struck a chord in
me and I have been reflecting on how I have swallowed my anger over the years
to protect my relationship. As I no longer bury my feelings with food, (hence
considerable weight loss!) I seem to be embodying it. So I decided to
stomp it out along the beach and managed to walk the furthest so far!
I kept noticing red stones as I walked so I began to
pick them up. As I looked at them in my hand I thought about my gall stones,
little hard lumps of unexpressed anger. I began to throw them away as I didn’t
want them anymore. I could feel the colour red inside me and ‘embodied’ the
energy of it. I felt amazingly powerful and awesomely destructive. It seemed as
if I contained enough power to destroy the world. I laughed at my fantasy
releasing the energy as I grounded myself in reality.
As I continued to walk I started to notice how much
blue there was along the beach. The covers of the boats, walls, beach huts everywhere
I looked I saw blue. So much blue that I had not taken in before. And they all
sang out to me as I found myself recalling the blue experience with Peter. I
felt such peace within my being I smiled to myself. I had recovered my centre
all by myself and it was wonderful.
Friday.
On returning home I discovered a large brown
envelope from Peter containing forty pages entitled Aspect Psychology and
Morphic Resonation. It is all very interesting and tied together a lot of loose
ends in my mind by explaining what is happening when we ‘meditate’ together.
Session Six. 6th March 2003
What an interesting session today was! At the
beginning I told Peter about starting to go for walks and the experience I had
with red and blue. I also mentioned ‘smashing’ my glass wall and he had noticed
the change as soon as I walked in, he couldn’t sense the wall! Amazing.
He had not received the ‘notice’ about my letter but
as I left last time he had meant to tell me it was fine to contact him if I
wanted to. I think he was meaning a phone call though. But on some level I felt
he had expected to hear from me.
I had taken with me a ‘fall-back’ letter asking
Peter about the connection I feel with him, that I feel as if he knows who I
am. I gave it to him to read because I could not speak the words. I suspected I
would not be able to ask which is why I had written it in the first
place. He seemed most interested in my comment about not having been in a
body for a long time. He said my letter was nothing to feel embarrassed about
but I got the impression he interpreted the connection in terms of our greater
souls having ‘touched.’
He had also had a ‘red’ experience recently, during
a resonation. The red had been brick/brown in shade and so like mine. He used
the word synchronistic to describe this and the fact that he had advised
someone to do some exercise to develop his special awareness! Interesting or
what? Perhaps there is a telepathic link between us on some level after all.
He told me a lot about himself today and some very
interesting experiences he has had along his way. It doesn’t feel right to
record what he told me but I believe he is a man with a mission and I am in it
up to my neck!!!
He had some more exercises planned today. He wanted
me to practice some of the ones I had struggled with before. He got me to
‘face’ and ‘embody’ different emotions: vulnerable, suspicious, cold and
detached and then angry. I did the last one best but it caused me to giggle a
lot. It seemed odd to show these feelings when it was not what I was actually
feeling. I think I did okay though.
He then asked me to show him open and receptive, no
giggling here, then to get in touch with the sense of connection I had
mentioned in my letter. Wow is about all I can say. I can’t describe the experience
at all. I was right there in the room looking at him but was miles away at the
same time. A few thoughts wandered through my head but I just felt I wanted to
soak up all he could give me. As we sat face to face all I can remember is
asking in my head for more of whatever it was that was going on between us, and
he just kept giving it.
Sometimes he moved further away then back in again,
at times our faces were so close I thought our noses would touch. I had a
wonderful sense of filling up and moving back only to fall in again, where I
was falling I knew not, into his soul I think. I was left with the impression
that he has a better sense of who I am but I remain in the dark.
I found it incredibly hard to come back to myself.
Several times Peter broke eye-contact and I thought the resonation was over
only to reconnect and find myself falling back into his eyes. In the end he
made the sign of the cross and it felt he was trying to break the connection. I
shut my eyes and lent forward, he placed his hand on my head and I felt
blessed. It was simply joyous, words fail me, again. My heart was singing fit
to burst.
At one point there was a palpable heat between us
which I think radiated from him, such a warmth. I am left feeling that I love
this man with my whole being, a deep soul love without any sexual or romantic
feelings to get in the way, just incredible warmth. I could hardly speak
afterwards. I managed to ask for a glass of water. We didn’t talk about it. I
walked back home completely spaced out.
Journal entry:
Oh my dear God, wow, wow and wow again!
I had an amazing phone call with Peter this
afternoon about last week. He found one of our connections during the
resonation: A white Byzantine church with him as the priest and me a young man,
a member of his congregation for whom he had great affection. He called me by
another name, Thomas/Tomas. He felt compelled to make the sign of the cross and
then to place his hand on my head as a blessing, exactly as I received
it! My other impressions he also confirmed, he appearing taller and the
incredible warmth between us.
It was great to talk to him although I had found it
really hard to call. He made it clear it was not a problem to do so. He
actually thanked me for the experience as he found it very powerful. I laughed
and said I had just been sitting there!
He is working at a fast rate with me and said he
admired my bravery. (Him too? I don’t see it as brave at all, am I missing
something?) He has at times wondered if he has given me too much information
but I made it clear that I can handle it. We spoke about so many things, as
usual and I’m not sure I can recall all of it.
He did mention how he avoided religious symbolism
but is noticing it more and more in his work. It is clearly deeply spiritual
and I am not sure I had any idea about how deep it really is.
He had given me his book ‘New Age to New Gnosis’ to
read and I told him how impressed with it I had been. It is his latest writing
and not many have read it so far. I feel privileged to have been given it. I am
in awe of his mind, I said, and how he writes, drawing so many different
aspects together. I am lucky to have found him as if ‘luck’ has anything to do
with it. I was meant to find him. I have a job to do.
He mentioned The Work and I explained that Thursday
had brought home the gravity of it all. I realise that although I have a choice
in this I know I am in it up to my neck and that is how I want it to be.
I mentioned the feedback I am getting about being
different and that I really feel it. We spoke about my ‘training’, he doesn’t
like the word but there are stages to go through although he can’t say how long
it takes. His aim is for me to become aware of my full spiritual power and to
know how to use it, yes!
We covered so many topics I can’t remember right now
but I feel wonderfully reassured by talking to him. I explained how hard it was
for me to make the call and he acknowledged my difficulties around boundaries.
He mentioned again he was aware of the change in my aura as soon as I walked in
the door on Thursday. He also mentioned meeting other people he has worked
with, particularly Michael. I must remember to tell him my connection with that
name.
Session Seven. 20th March 2003
I was not happy this morning as we had
received a letter putting up the rent by £50 a month. This had the effect of
shifting my head into the material world and my plan to be centred went to pot!
After burbling on about the rent I talked to Peter
about my snappiness due to PMT. He suggested an alternative idea to counting to
ten in that I allow myself time to experience the emotion of feeling over
loaded, under pressure, irritated etc: To allow that to become a facial
expression and hold it, then, within that experience, to still feel my centre
and to come from there rather than to snap straight away, to keep, or find, my
centre through the other feelings. It made sense so I will have to try it.
Peter talked about the three stages of resonation:
1. just looking at the other’s eyes, 2. making contact with one aspect
observed, using resonation, 3. bringing about a change. It is important that
three can only be attempted after one and two. My difficulty is knowing when
two has worked.
We did an exercise where Peter embodied a feeling
and expressed it in his face and eyes. He then wanted me to connect with that
feeling using resonation. For me to gradually try and bring about a change in
him, by experiencing it myself. He wanted me to note two things: 1. when I made
contact and 2. when he was back in his eyes.
We did this twice to start with. Peter took on an
expression of being ‘out of it’ and I was to bring him back. The second time he
put himself ‘behind’ and asked me to bring him ‘forward’ until he was looking
out from his eyes. So I tried and things seemed to be going okay until a little
thought went through my head: ‘I can see you’ and I started to laugh. I
explained the reason for my outburst and Peter said he understood why that idea
should go through my head because it had worked. We then sat in the chairs and
talked. I am a bit hazy about the details though. The reason being that eye
contact with him automatically affects my consciousness.
We talked some more about the vowel sound aspect of
his work and he wanted to show me a video of a singer who embodies the emotions
involved in the words of what she sings. I had no objections so we moved into
the back room. She really was amazing, such expression facially, physically and
verbally. I found it very moving especially the more melancholy songs. When she
stopped singing it was like she was someone else! She had come back to herself.
She was truly fantastic. I told Peter I had been singing in the car recently
while between clients. An expression of how great I have been feeling.
I told him about an insight I had recently while
reading New Age to New Gnosis. I was once told that children sometimes come
into our lives to help us change direction. I had interpreted Ben’s appearance
as helping us to stop being any more involved with the people we were working
for. The other day I just suddenly ‘knew’ he came not for that reason but to
stop me continuing my psychotherapy training. I see clearly now that it was the
wrong path for me. Yet some of the skills I learnt have been useful.
We also spoke about our phone conversation and how I
felt afterwards. I mentioned the feeling that it was just one of our
connections he ‘found’ last time and if he had a sense of it before I wrote my
letter? But I am not sure he gave me a clear answer to that question. He mentioned
wanting to know my sense of it and hence the focus of his enquiry into my soul.
There was so much to talk about there wasn’t time
for a resonation and I expressed my feelings of loss when we don’t. He spoke
about The Work and our work together. I asked him if he had any ideas as he had
mentioned using resonation to discover ‘future’ involvements as well as ‘past’.
He had wanted to ask me the same question. I responded that I had found myself
talking to a friend about writing his ideas for a wider audience than they are
currently aimed at. I felt it sounded arrogant of me to verbalise it but he
wasn’t offended. Indeed he acknowledged that his level of writing is very deep.
He told me a little about the responses of other
peoples to the different aspects of his work. I think he was trying to let me
know that not many are interested in the deeper spiritual side. Yet it is
exactly this area that feeds me the most and what I feel I have been looking
for.
I think he is keen to get on with whatever it is he wants
us to do and seemed a bit unsure how we can avoid so much talking. He asked
what I thought and I replied I see it as part of the process, that there has
been a shift in our relating and to some extent we have to go with it.
I spoke about the two week gap being too long as it
is almost as if we have to get reacquainted each time. He is prepared to see me
between sessions if both our commitments will allow. But he didn’t want to
pressure me! Doesn’t he realise I would move mountains to do this work? Come
hell or high water!!!
Before I left he went through the vowel sounds
and the postures that go with them. He made a note of them for me and I said I
will practice them. We arranged to meet next Monday evening. I can’t wait!
I have an increased sense of responsibility about
all this. But I recognise the important spiritual aspect to it and the need for
the healing this work can achieve. This feels like my life’s work.
Session Eight. 24th March 2003
This is our first ‘in between’ session that I will
refer to as Peter’s time as opposed to mine. We met on a Monday evening.
Peter wanted us to work with the vowel sounds that
are such an important aspect to this work. As I understand his philosophy our
internal communication is based on different ‘tonalities’. We can ‘embody’
these different tones in terms of colour. But most important is how we speak.
The tones of voice we use to express ourselves. There is a deeper esoteric
level to these tones but I’m still getting my head round that.
We again went through the positions, facial
expressions and the sounds themselves. We then spent time with the Eh and Ee.
We practiced them in eye-contact taking it in turns to affect the other. To
explain further: Eh has a downward motion, when Peter was making the sound, even
silently, I could feel the downward pull within my being, even when I was
saying Ee, which has an out-to-the-side motion. Then Peter tried to stay with
Ee while I drew him down with my Eh. It was good fun actually. It was quite
amazing how powerful a tone change can be!
I kind of liked being drawn down and wanted to stay
there, however Peter demonstrated how Ah can be used to draw another back up
again! I was somewhat reluctant as I had hoped we would do a full resonation. I
don’t feel as connected to my soul without it. However I trust that he knows
what will help me in the long run. And he has said these practices will help. I
have already noticed a difference internally by using and practicing the whole
movement and sounds.
We then did some work on consonants and we used our
names as examples. I was really interested in Peter’s choice of words to
describe K, R and N. K=kingly, upright, straight backed. R has a roar to it and
N is very knowing. His name: P=POWER and how, he made me jump! T=touch, R is
part of Er the last vowel sound and has a giving motion.
We spoke our names silently to each other using the
arm movements with the vowel sounds. We then spoke them in resonation. It
really was an interesting session and I reflected on several words on the way
home, particularly MEDITATION.
Journal entries:
Thursday 27th March.
Trouble is ……. I’m not sure what!
I feel really disconnected to my creativity and it’s
starting to affect my BA course. I had two tutorials yesterday and I have
realised I need to do something different, 3D I think. But I’m not sure about
time and commitment. This work with Peter feels like the reason for my life and
suddenly art seems unimportant. Have I got the time for both? is what I am
asking myself. I know I want to do stronger stuff than just what will sell, I’m
not playing at this. I recognise my need to do things on a deeper level or not
at all. My friend Isobella’s decision to change to full time has caused me to
reflect on my position.
I am wondering whether or not to phone Peter. I
don’t know if any of this has to do with the knock-on effect of our work
together, part of the process or even some uncertainty on my part. I’m
beginning to only really feel alive either when I’m with him or after a joint
meditation. I feel in limbo, disconnected – to my menstrual pattern as well as
my creativity, and even to some extent my soul, and I miss that most of all.
Saturday 29th March.
Clocks change tonight, Spring forward, hurrah! I
love British summertime.
This morning I decided to try and sort things out
for myself while walking as I remember I changed my consciousness in the first
week I started walking.
I found myself pondering about boundaries, self
imposed ones as in my art and also around phoning Peter. It was only this
morning and yet I am having trouble remembering the details. That usually
indicates a shift in my consciousness, and I certainly changed my mood from
heavy and troubled to less so. I felt more lively on my return. I did quite a
lot of running and was out for two hours.
I made a decision to call Peter anyway as a way of
breaking through self-inflicted barriers. We spoke for about an hour. He
thanked me for his pictures, (birthday present), he has hung the three up
together and has comments on them! I told him about my walk this morning and
what I had been pondering ie my reasons for phoning him. How I have felt
disconnected this week, about my art and the course. His comments were very
useful, as usual. He pointed out that it is not possible to stay in an ‘up’
mood all the time, moods change, sometimes with menstrual cycles or other
cycles. That it is my awareness of the difference that is important, noticing
its lack. He noted that my description of being different when with others is
down to me not shifting my awareness into my centre.
He has been thinking that we should talk about how
to relate to people who are not operating on a deeper level of consciousness.
As usual it was great to talk to him. It helped me
to see things clearer and his comments are always spot on. Trouble is I now
can’t remember all that we talked about! I am glad I phoned though.
I just remembered one more thing about boundaries
sometimes they can be protective, the important thing is not to let other
peoples’ moods effect my own.
Tuesday 1st April.
Just wanted to record some dream fragments from last
night:
I was with Peter and we were visiting an old, dark
and disused house. I’m not clear why we were there but I have a vague idea
about contacting someone from our past.
The details are hazy but I remember Peter touching
me in a deeply affectionate way, I think my face or cheek. I asked him about
Karin and what the implications were. He seemed to think she was okay with it.
His touch wasn’t sexual in nature although it had an intimacy about it. I
remember leaning into him, feeling his warmth and safety. At some point there
was another Me, a third one, but I don’t remember any more about her.
Session Nine. Thursday 3rd April
Oh wow! (again)! Totally amazing resonation today:
spot the dream connections.
Peter began by talking about our Work together and
about the areas of potential development. He asked me if I had any further
thoughts, I didn’t but I waffled a bit! I told him a bit about my dream but not
about the touch. I also told him how I tried to reconnect the following night.
I had awoken with a really clear idea about something deep which I felt
confirmed what I already knew. Unfortunately I didn’t record it and come
morning had completely forgotten it. So annoying.
He asked me about the vowel sounds and asked me to
go through them. I found that hard, I hate it when someone is looking at me. So
he didn’t look directly at me. He made a few corrections then we resonated them
together three times. He indicated by tapping me gently as he changed from one
to another.
We then talked again, this time about if you are
connected to your inner self you are more likely to look within others in your
contact with them. This creates a deeper and more rewarding contact for both parties.
Being self orientated has little real contact.
We sat for a resonation about 12.30 for about an
hour.
I was attempting to relax into the process and to
let go of whatever it was I could feel holding me back. I was aware of Peter
using some vowel sounds and mirrored some of these with him. I had an image in
my mind’s eye of a ship and an anchor. I felt I should anchor myself to Peter
so I did then throw myself overboard to sink beneath the waves.
Something clicked in me about our earlier conversation,
Peter had talked about reaching into the other so I thought I would try it. I
gathered my being and felt my way into him. I could tell from his face that he
could feel my touch. I responded to some of his expressions by mirroring them
and felt the amplification in our resonating. At some point I felt an
incredible energy rise through me and around me.
My intention was all over the place as the
experience was so new and incredibly exciting. I found the image of a magnolia
flower in my mind and tried to ‘send’ it to Peter. I was aware of several times
reaching back into his energy field and could feel our inner aspects meld. The
power in that was wonderful. At times I was aware of him smiling in response to
me. At another time he seemed cold and distant even forbidding. After my
initial uncertainty I perceived that as a challenge and continued to reach into
him with my being. Generally I was aware of his response as positive. I felt
safe within his being, warm, protected, accepted, welcome and invited. I felt
as if I wanted to lean on him.
Our faces stayed very close throughout with very
little change in posture, it was very intense and intimate but perfectly
comfortable and natural. I felt he was showing me different aspects of himself
and at one point I thought about Seth II as Peter seemed almost alien to me in
a detached emotionless way.
Afterwards I felt I was almost pulsating with
energy. I found it almost impossible to speak and felt myself return from quite
a ‘distance’. After some time passed Peter asked what I wanted to do next, stay
and talk, or leave and stay with the feeling and speak later on the phone. I
expressed a wish to stay but also how hard it was to string a sentence
together!
I just wanted to grin like a fool.
It took a while but eventually I was able to
verbalize my experience. It seemed to be totally in sequence with him. He was
aware of my ‘touch’ and was delighted by it. He had been showing me various
aspects of himself, each time going deeper, very deep.
The vowel sounds early on had been the Lord’s Prayer,
something he occasionally uses but this had been his most powerful experience
with it. At the end he had been aware of our connection going back eons!!! He
had thought of my dream and the house in it. I remembered that at some point I
too had thought of my dream and so I told him some more details. About his
touch and its nature, that it was this that I wondered about Karin’s response
to.
Peter felt my dream could be precognitive in
relation to our resonation. The night before he and Karin had sat in resonation
which had been very deep and powerful. That it was rare for him to experience
two such resonations two days running. That Karin’s response in my dream was
spot-on and she is okay with our work together because she understands the soul
connection involved. (Note to Peter I am a bit hazy about this point so feel
free to correct me.)
So I finally mentioned the ‘s’ word! I talked about
my difficulty in this area and joked that if this was therapy I would probably
be talking about it for years, he laughed at that. I then spoke about my
negative body image and its roots in pubescence and adolescence. I always felt
I was fat because no one told me my body changes where normal and should be
welcomed. I used to feel uncomfortable in my skin but have been aware of how
that is changing as I am losing weight.
This work has given me a deep inner sense of
connection to my inner being. Somehow this has been radiating outwards. The
changes in my body are an outer manifestation of a deep inner change. The tone
inside has changed, I no longer need to protect myself with layers of fat. I
don’t need it any more so off it goes.
Peter was clear about the non-sexual, but instead
deeply spiritual aspect to this work. He spoke about giving clear messages and
how I would need to be aware of that when I work with men. I stated I don’t
usually have problems at giving off ‘stay clear’ messages!
Oh my, this work is so incredibly exciting I can’t
wait for the next instalment!
Journal entries:
Friday 4th April
Interesting meditation this morning, I woke before
5.30 so meditated then. I was reflecting on yesterday’s resonation and
experimented with the vowel sounds of the Lord’s Prayer. There are several I’m
not sure about but I think I got the general gist of it. At the end I was
recalling Peter’s experience of our connection and also felt a sense of it
stretching way back in time. There is so much to discover and I’m so impatient.
I have a strong feeling of change because of
yesterday and that resonation with Peter is the key to unlocking different
aspects of myself. I feel I need some stabilization within that will come with
practice. I feel a real need to explore deep within Peter to find those
different aspects and that way our work together will become clearer. I know we
have important work to do.
Saturday 5th April.
On my way to work yesterday musing about my
meditation I had a clear sense that somehow I have a message for Peter but I
have no idea what it may be. I felt that possibly the magnolia flower is
significant partly because I dreamt of similar flowers when I ‘delivered’ my
letter to him. I thought it would be nice to phone him to share these ideas
rather then just call when I feel I need him. However he wasn’t in and by the
time he called back this morning my head was in a completely different space.
On my walk this morning I was aware of some tension
in my shoulders. I used my inner body awareness to tune into my centre and
realised it was not to do with my outer life but my inner one. Something
stirred up by Thursday’s resonation, I became aware of my feelings of
responsibility in whatever work it is that Peter and I have agreed to do
together.
I told him my sense of having agreed to this a long
time ago and his feelings were that this must be the case because of the way I
had responded so far. He was pleased by what I told him as he knew the time
would come when I realised the implications. I told him what had gone through
my head on the beach: Oh My God what have I agreed to do?
The image of the anchor on Thursday had a new
significance as I really felt the need to anchor myself to him and to rest my
head on his shoulder. Some words from the New Testament came into my head:
Peter is my rock. At that point I had found a stone which felt significant, it
had a channel running through it, and I picked it up for him.
He said he is okay with me leaning on him but
although he alone can do it he can’t do it alone. He doesn’t have to. Something
shifted between us on Thursday which we both acknowledged as significant. He
shared with me a bit about what has been in his head in relation to having
experienced two powerful resonations. He found the material for several long
letters to his links in Australia. Apparently things have been causing him some
concern but he didn’t go into details.
We spoke about humility versus acknowledging one’s
power. He told me Paul had struggled with similar issues and would I like to
read something he has written on this subject. Of course I would! We spoke quite
a lot about religion and his writing New Age to New Gnosis. I told him I had
once thought about training as a R.E. teacher, strange but true he also
considered that as a career path! I reiterated my feeling that this Work is
what I have been looking for, for years. I know inside it is him I have been
looking for.
We also talked about ego strength and the need for
such to do inner work.
Session ten. Thursday 9th April
In many ways a frustrating session with Peter today,
ultimately because I feel as if I wasted the time. I am impatient and Peter has
suggested I should trust the process a bit more. He reminded me that it is
still early days in our time together and my learning. I always want to run
before I can walk!
I had taken a drawing I had done about myself nearly
two years ago which I thought Peter might like to see. It has a heart in the
centre of concentric colours with three red flashes coming out from the centre.
We talked briefly about it. I find it very hard to say much about my art, find
it hard to read it objectively. Peter believes I need to become more
subjective, something to think about.
He spoke to me about Gurdjieff’s ideas about The
Work and gave me a draft copy of the aims and means he has written for the web
site. He wanted my opinion, which unfortunately freezes my brain. He had wanted
us to put our heads together over it but my head was full of other ideas.
Recently I have wondered if my creativity is going
to continue to be expressed through art and therefore if I should stop my
degree. I hadn’t painted for weeks and it was beginning to seriously concern
me. We talked for an hour and a half before Peter suggested we did a slightly
different resonation today to help me get in touch with a felt sense of the
issue. I was to allow my thoughts to just flow and try to amplify any feelings
I experienced. He sat opposite me and I didn’t have to open my eyes unless I
wanted to, but just allow the emotions to show on my face.
I allowed the confusion to enter my being, tuned
into the tone, amplified it and then expressed it through my face. I
experienced myself exposed on a mountain top, naked and vulnerable. I became
surrounded by mountains all baring down on me. I recalled my reaction to a film
the day before when a mother who couldn’t cope with her children suffered a
mental breakdown.
I began to relive my experience of feeling
overwhelmed, when my children were small. I had not been able to cope with the
different demands on my time and I had desperately wanted to develop my art. I
felt ashamed of the way I had behaved towards the children. I remembered
feeling they would be better off without me and longing to go home, thought
they would be better off if I was dead.
I tried to open my eyes to look at Peter as the
tears flowed. I asked for a tissue and said it was stuff from the past. Peter
had picked up my sense of being overwhelmed. We resumed resonation but things
get a bit hazy from this point. He spoke to me about the hara centre still being there, even when our head is in turmoil or
the heart is feeling pain. Our feet still touch the ground and we can gain
strength from being grounded.
I breathed into my centre and reached out my being
into his. I found peace and stillness. He spoke quite a lot but my
consciousness had shifted and I can’t recall the details. I know he soothed my
spirit in regard to the past. He quoted Seth: all experience is vitality to the
soul, a different state of being. He reminded me of the blue of my soul, he
could still see the blue. It flashed around me and was gone again.
He told me that angels have colours but archangels
have a single colour. When I allowed that archangel energy to work through me
it would be healing. I had a sense of a great energy surrounding me but I was
within a membrane or bubble. I tried to touch it but was frustrated by my
efforts. I wanted to give it to Peter so I gathered in the blue and sent it to
him. I tried to feel it by expanding my being into his. It almost worked. But I
think I tried too hard.
Peter broke off and spoke about returning to myself
differently to retain something from the resonation. I told him I couldn’t feel
the blue and he linked back into me. I think he tried to send it to me like he
had before but I just wasn’t receiving. He told me he was quite black and I
reached for that with some success. He seemed to be listening to his inner
voice and broke off the contact again.
He reminded me it is still early days and I will
have to be patient. If only I could be. The rest is hazy but I told him about
my tears and my memories. Went into too much detail about the film which had
sparked something off inside. That I could actually speak about that time
without the pain is testament to the healing I had received from him.
He mentioned Gurdjieff again and how he saw people
as going through the motions of life like automatons. But how people like me
and himself had trouble doing that. He told me a little of bringing up his sons
on his own. How his office space had been in the lounge and he had to structure
his time ruthlessly. He hinted that he has had his hard times too.
We spoke some more about my course and he asked how
I saw myself using the time I talked about having if not studying. I mentioned
the mess my home is in and he stressed the importance of putting my house in
order. He asked what space I have to myself and I realised how cluttered my
workroom has become. It is no wonder my creative energy has got stuck, how
could it flow around all that mess? Priority no. 1 = clear out my workroom and
make space for my art to flow.
He stressed the importance of making a decision
about my art, any ambivalence needs resolution otherwise it gets in the way.
That it is hard to centre when one’s head is occupied.
On my way home I found myself calling into a
friend’s new business and talking about my dilemma. She understood some of the
stresses being also on a degree course with the same collage. We shared some of
our individual issues and I came to realise that in one sense I am running away
from a wall. I had mentioned this possibility to Peter. Things had become
tough, I had reached a point of commitment and I was wavering.
I felt much clearer in my mind as I continued on my
way home and I was cross with myself for using my time with Peter for such a
trivial red herring. I felt there was another issue I had avoided talking
about. Our last resonation had altered our relationship and I hadn’t adjusted
to the shift. However talking about my process to another friend I realised
that it had been necessary as part of my inner clearing.
Resonation was like a tidal wave washing through my
inner being, crashing on to my beach of awareness. The next step was to beach
comb through the psychic flotsam and jetsam to find any treasures and clear up
the rubbish. Earlier this morning I had dithered over what clothes to wear as,
for the first time since dropping two dress sizes, I had felt exposed.
During today’s resonation I had connected to that
feeling on a deeper level. I had some doubts in my abilities to cope with any
extra demands on my time. I knew from deep within my being that I was ‘meant’
to be involved with Peter’s Work. I feel last weekend I received a flash of a
possible future and I panicked. I think I am being prepared on many levels not
yet available to my consciousness for very good reasons. I do need to trust the
process and my deeper selves. I am being protected, all in good time!
I do not need to worry about being overwhelmed I am
no longer the same person and do not need to be spooked by ghosts of my former
self. I am in a very different space now. I am strong enough, I can do this,
what ever it is!
Journal entry: Saturday 12th April.
Just woke up after a very strange dream:
I was taken up to London
somewhere to meet a Jewish man called Ave Abaie. He lived above an inn. His
door bell was hidden. I was to meet him because the person who took me believed
I had certain gifts/abilities which fulfilled a Jewish prophecy. But I can’t
remember who took me. I can’t remember much of this first meeting either,
except that he was younger than I expected, around my own age, dark, serious
and intense. His room had been dark, full of books and other things I couldn’t
see in the gloom.
I took it upon myself to
call again, I remember trying to find the door bell, I was with someone but
don’t know who. The inn keeper came out and told us Ave was away for the day,
he had been very reluctant to go but couldn’t get out of the commitment.
I went again, a third time,
with my mother. I didn’t tell her what I was doing but took her into this
Jewish area that was off a main road. It was amazingly old fashioned. The
design of the shop fronts was like going back in time. I found the inn and we
sat down with a drink. The inn keeper recognised me and said he would find Ave.
He came and found me and I
made some excuse to mum about having to see someone. We had been having a
conversation about how I had been behaving in a different way. I don’t think
mum was happy with these changes.
This time I meet with Ave
the inn keeper sat with us and another much older man. They were concerned
about my safety. They mentioned getting run over by a bus as a risk. I
reassured them by saying I believe we cause our own ‘accidents’ and I didn’t
feel I needed one.
They had decided that I was
‘the one’ although they expected my abilities to be a bit further developed. To
this end they wanted me to study with Ave.
To do this I told my parents
he was a potential husband and we wanted to get to know each other before
making a decision.
The next thing I remember I was
hanging up a white blanket or sheet from a tree in Ave’s front garden. It
symbolised a message to the community. The technician from college was there
telling me about pruning shrubs, that I knew enough to recognise the centre
growth and be able to work out the rest.
At some point I was in an
auction house with mum looking at small chests of drawers. Towards the end I
was going through my old jewellery. I remembered doing the same as a young
girl, I was trying to get knots out a chain.
I have been reflecting on the last ten days. The way
I see things now is: the resonation we did last week was so deep, echoes from
some dimension effected a change in my relationship with Peter. He was
certainly different with me on the phone last Saturday, more like a friend.
Somehow this change brought up some old patterns within me. I have only ever
had one male friend before and he was like a big brother to me. I don’t feel I
know the ‘rules’ of such a friendship.
I had wanted to talk to Peter about this but I think
the wobble was deeper than I realised. The film then capped it all by shaking
loose some old feelings of guilt and worthlessness, which clearly needed to be
released and healed.
I felt incredibly strong within myself this morning
walking back along the beach. I am so far away from the person I was then and I
have come even further since seeing Peter. I hardly recognise myself sometimes
and it is wonderful.
I’m not clear how much it was the ‘glimpses’ of
responsibility or the changes in Peter towards me that caused the reaction. I
know something scared me and I know I really do not need to worry, at all. I
also realised last night that my thoughts about leaving college were ‘should’
I, I never asked myself if I actually wanted to or not. I also think this was
in reaction to my feeling of unworthiness and self sacrifice.
Session Eleven. Thursday 17th April, evening 6.30-10, Peter’s time.
Told P my dream - he made several notes and found it
very interesting. He spoke about the ‘inn’ as being a meeting place. The dream
was a construction of a real inner event, a ‘gathering’ of other aspects of myself
have met and to remember it I created the dream to bring the message into my
conscious mind.
The message, P felt, was given in a crafty way and
is contained within me being the one they were looking for. The message is
that: I AM THE ONE. I find it hard to articulate the deeper meaning of
this as it is still on a ‘felt’ level. But I feel sure I will understand the
full implications over time. But it relates to my entity, I am the one, as in,
not a part, (I think.)
Anyway it seems it is a very important dream.
I mentioned the parallels to himself which he
acknowledged. He also thought there was some telepathic communication between
us again. I hadn’t known until he told me today that London was the starting
place of P’s work. Also there seem to be some elements of Golders Green off the
Finchley Road, not an area I know, but where P had been this weekend, visiting
his mother’s house. He talked about this house and I want to see it as it
sounds wonderful.
P laughed about the men in my dream saying my
talents were not as far developed as they expected and made a comment about it
being typical, they always expect more. He also told me about Steiner saying
for every internal development there are three external changes. No wonder I am
changing at such a rate then!!
He told me he dreamt about me in the months before
we met. I felt an inner ‘jump’ when he said that but I didn’t give it away.
Instead I asked in what context. He didn’t go into details but said he had had
several dreams with an unknown woman, sometimes Karin was in them. I was
stunned and only later thought of questions like: how or when he knew I was the
woman? I have yet to tell him of the little ‘leap’ I felt when Karin first
mentioned him to me. Until that point neither ‘knew’ about the other’s
existence. Which of our souls was communicating to the other? We must talk some
more about this as I am bursting with curiosity.
I told him how I knew within the hour of leaving
here last week, (what a long week it has been) what I would do about my course.
I told him of the conversation I had on the way home. He wanted to know at what
point I experienced the change. I had to recall the events in my mind and pinned
it down to Sue’s comment about not acting during times of transition. I had
teased her about recent changes she had made. Looking back I realised there had
been an internal change at that point prompting a light hearted response. P
suggested I look out for such inner changes and begin to be aware of them.
I told him about my walk and my new found inner
strength. I mentioned nearly phoning him and my thoughts against doing so. He
said I really do not need to worry about this and that he had nearly phoned me.
I wished he had! Several times in the week when the phone rang I wondered if it
could be him. Although he had wanted to demonstrate there is no problem using
the phone he had a strong inner voice telling him to leave me with my process.
That he was to trust I was okay, he knew I would be alright, which of course I
was.
I commented on the change in our relating which
occurred during our last phone call, my awareness of the shift and the reaction
within me. He pointed out the change in me, my new found strength, he was very
aware of it.
Referring back to last week I mentioned the process
I then went through and the healing which he gave me. I asked if he had
received the blue I sent to him during our resonation. He had and was thus
confused when I said I couldn’t feel it. He expressed his desire for me to
experience the colours and I echoed his feeling.
He talked a bit about a dictionary of relevant terms
and mentioned several of them in our dialogue. He talked of the ‘meditative
attitude’ to life, the reconnection with the ‘abode’, abdomen, hara, of checking where your awareness
is and ‘re-centering’ yourself in the lower body. Connecting to the ‘under
body’ and the energy contained there, listening to the ‘inner silence’ within
the hara, of ‘giving voice’ to the
messages from there, ‘speaking from within’.
I love listening to him. I could sit at his feet all
day and drink in his wisdom. I find myself complete in his company.
I told him how I had remembered his words; there is
always the hara, after an argument I
had in the week. That by reconnecting with my centre I had found the words I
needed to respond rather than stay silent like I usually do. I saw this as a
significant change in the way I generally deal with internal conflict. I
realised I have been trying to be a square peg in a round hole, for years. I
feel as if I am coming back to myself after years of being lost and it feels so
great.
Since we last met I had a significant clear out in
my workroom and came across something I thought P might be interested in
reading. Some years ago I had become friends with a trance medium and had
permission to audio tape some of the sessions. I found three transcriptions
which I lent him along with a covering letter contextualising them. I had not
wished to use up precious time talking about it but I did mention it briefly. I
asked him if he has seen many trance mediums, none he has been impressed with.
But then after reading the Seth material anything would pale in comparison.
P spoke about reading Jane Robert’s biography and
how little she seemed able to make use of the material she channelled. I said
this was the root of my reluctance to develop in this area although it seemed I
had some potential. He told me Steiner’s way and his personal belief in owning
the information and recognising its source is within you. We spoke of the
‘language’ used in spiritualist circles adopted by developing mediums as a way
of understanding what is happening. I pointed out the nature of P’s ideas are
radically different, which of course he knows!
P gave me something to read which he asked for some
feedback on. It was more information for the website.
Phone call: Saturday 19th April4-5.30pm
I had a response to the information P had asked me
to read. I had initially found it hard because the tone of it did not feel
right. I had to overcome feelings of sacrilege in daring to criticising
something he had written. But what I was left with made my head spin and I knew
I couldn’t wait until Thursday to talk to him.
Thankfully he was available and amazingly receptive
to my comments, they echoed his own, thank God! He said he had taken a risk in
asking me to read it and was pleased I had been honest with him. I replied that
honesty is very important to me, (it is to him too). I was so relieved to hear
his thoughts.
As usual we covered many topics mainly around the
craft and risks of writing. He had asked me recently if I would write about
some of our resonation sessions and I had reminded him I have been keeping a
journal since January. I said I would start typing them up for him. I spoke
about the change in my confidence since working with him, particularly in my
tendency to pass on what I read and consider worth knowing. He seems to think
not many people have an inclination to teach others.
I can really relate to what he writes and feel it
has given me a language to express things I already believe in. He told me
academics hate his writings and subject matter, denying that such things could
be. His work is deeply philosophical in its nature and I guess not everyone can
access such depths. They could open their minds a bit further though. In
reference to the piece which prompted this conversation he felt a different
genre is needed and that he is not ‘the one’ to write it. I joked about
wondering when that sentence would come back and hit me in the face!!
I started writing that evening. The first step on a
long journey I have always known I would take, especially since meeting P. He
really is amazing and I feel incredibly honoured to work with him. That he
wants to teach me is a constant source of wonder to me but I feel like I have
come home.
Session Twelve. Thursday 24th April.
Gave Peter my notes on Invitation to…. Plus my typed
up edited sessions 1-7.
It was hard to hand them over as my old rejection
fears rise up to stop me taking risks. I told him about reading my old journal
and the notes from that which I had added to the end of the session notes. I
spoke about some of the things I had forgotten.
I told him about a resonation I had done the night
before with a friend. I had sat with the intention of finding a past life
connection and was very pleased with the results. Peter asked me specific
questions about the different steps I took and why. It was really good to go through
it with him. He said I was a star pupil and warmed the cockles of his teacher’s
heart. I just glowed and said give me an idea and I will run with it!!
His comments were really useful. I must remember the
important elements are intent and feelings, vision should follow feeling. I was
pleased as I had been feeling rather than seeing. I also told him that I had
felt the connection in a distant way but wasn’t sure why that was. I had noted
that if ‘I’ was ‘there’ it contradicts my feeling that I haven’t been in a body
for a long time. He wondered if it was a sub-personality as explained in the
Seth material and I replied that I had also wondered about that. Who knows?
Peter told me some more of the history of resonation
and some personal details. There is no precedent in any spiritual practice. The
crucial element is the involvement of two people to make it work. A key issue
for today when people have so many problems relating. I do feel very strongly
that his ideas should reach a wider audience. There is just so much potential
to help people, so many facets to his work. He spoke for some time today and I
was aware of opening myself up to take it all in on a deeper level.
Unfortunately my shift in consciousness affects my memory.
We spoke briefly about drugs and I also told him
about my connection to the name Michael, being my son’s middle name after my
‘guide’. A few days before he was born I had awoken in the night terrified
about giving birth. I had experienced a comforting presence which let me know all
would be well. I had always called my guide Michael and after that I wanted it
to be my baby’s middle name. Also I told Peter how it had been the archangel
Michael card which informed me I should buy the set of cards that were very
important to me a few years ago, deeply spiritual cards which taught me a lot.
He mentioned resonating at 12.30, (how we can use up
time talking!), and had I any areas I wished to explore further. As I hadn’t he
suggested a deep colour search into the non-human level, I was game. So we sat
opposite each other.
Peter suggested some vowel sounds and we began the
session with our eyes open. We raised ourselves up through Ah, out through Ee
and down, down, down with Eh. It took a while to descend. I was aware of
alternating between the two cycles Peter had drawn my attention to earlier:
moving my intention into him and down into his hara, circling through my hara
and up through my eyes back into his. Then the reverse: drawing him in through
my eyes by turning my gaze inward towards my centre. I got lost occasionally
and had to refocus as I got distracted by waves of feelings.
Peter spoke: could I feel the black? I realised that
I was indeed within darkness and dragged a Yes out through my lips. We moved
into deep blue and I think purple but I was too deep to recall it accurately. I
do remember the gold, I felt that the strongest. Then Peter introduced the
tree, a magnolia tree. I had no trouble with that or the flowers. I was aware
of red when he mentioned purple/magenta, and the white, the colour too intense
to go into.
I clearly remember our beings were so blended it
felt as if we were experiencing the same flower within our combined essence.
That was incredibly powerful. I can’t describe the feeling, you would have to
experience it yourself. To be
psychically inside another is just exquisite.
Peter drew my attention to the brown of the tree and
the soil it grew from. I felt as if my very being was the tree, growing out
from deep within him. I could feel him surround me. As he shifted closer and I
moved in response, I became highly aware of where our outer bodies were
touching; of his legs outside mine, I was aware of his hands on his knees and
mine in my lap. Our faces so close to each other we were breathing the same
breath.
I was acutely aware of the shift in the energy
whenever either of us moved. I still don’t understand the body shifts in
relation to the process but no doubt I soon will. It feels natural to just go
with any urge to move.
We were deep within brown when he changed and I saw
a different aspect to him, completely new to me. He seemed to physically shrink
and as he moved in even closer the energy became highly charged as I felt
myself responding. I felt the energy rise within me in equal intensity. Peter
moved his right hand into the space between us at hara level but I could not have dragged my eyes from his if I had
wanted to. I did not see what he was doing but felt no physical contact.
There was something distinctly canine to his aspect
now and he sniffed the air I breathed out. My senses where reeling almost out
of control, and I wasn’t sure where they were taking me. The intense pleasure I
felt was confusing me and I drew myself to a halt to try and take stock of
myself. I was baffled by the change in Peter and by my response to him. As I
connected to my inner self I knew my trust in him, felt it, sat in it and
communicated it to him. I knew I was safe with him, I could look at any aspect
he showed me and not be shaken by it. I let that awareness shine from my eyes.
(As I sit writing this over a day later I wonder
where things would have gone if I had allowed myself to go with it. However I
know I needed to halt. I need to feel safe with my own power as I realise Peter
is with his. He knows what he is doing and as yet I don’t, but I know I want
to.)
By now Peter had changed again, this time very
distant, almost cold as he sat back and regarded me. His face seemed to expand,
I was still reeling inside and unsure how to respond. An ice cream van went past
and the sound broke the tension as we smiled at each other. He broke the
resonation contact and I tried to bring myself back, it was a long way to
return.
Peter returned to his chair and I staggered to mine.
We sat in silence, I was all over the place, my centre was somewhere deep and
my head was throwing all sorts of nonsense at me, past issues which had no
place or relevance. I looked at Peter, he returned my look briefly then closed
his eyes, I sat and watched his face, he seemed to be listening within but I
couldn’t do the same. I wanted him to speak first as the only words in my head
were ‘What the hell happened there?’ I waited trying to find some composure.
Eventually he asked what my experience had been.
I was having trouble recalling the flow but as I
spoke most of it returned. When I got to the canine he mentioned being a bit
naughty. He told me of an aspect of himself who works in the dark. He has
written about him and has been waiting for the appropriate time to print me a
copy. We both acknowledged the wolf and he said he had been looking for the
wolf in me. I told him I had started to respond but was unsure where it would
lead. I’m not sure if I communicated my sense of confusion as I was still
trying to work it out in myself. I did mention being baffled but knowing I
trusted him. I really can’t recall where the conversation went from there but I
felt everything was okay.
Yet again this experience has shaken me to my very
core. I am finding myself having to deal with a very powerful energy within my
being. I am very aware that my head could spin out of control and my ‘ego’
could really ‘do a number’ on me. Why do I have such a problem with feelings of
pleasure? The only reference point I have is sexual and I know in the core of
my being that this is not what this about. But I am lost without an alternative
frame of reference.
I have to stay centred in my hara and trust the process. I know energy is just energy, it is
what we do with it that counts and how we judge it that causes problems. Is the
bliss of spiritual ecstasy any different from that of an orgasm? Surely it is
all the same to the soul? I’m sure Seth has something to say on this.
I knew I would have to deal with my issues around
sex sometime soon, I knew it would emerge as I lost weight. Also in the very
first resonation with Peter I touched something in the energy we sat within
that felt so good I was instantly suspicious. I was reassured by Peter’s
writing that it is our Western culture which sees everything below the waist as
sexual. But I knew my upbringing is polluted by the same interpretation.
This has to be the hardest step yet. Thankfully I
have talked about this issue with Peter. I haven’t got two years though! I know
I can trust him, I know this work is spiritual, I know I have the power within
me if I dare to release it!
Journal entry:Saturday 26th April
Last night I read some Seth material on this subject
and he has a lot to say. Primarily for me, sexuality is just one way to express
love but not the only one.
I meditated for nearly an hour this morning. I
focused on the new aspect I have felt in my being since my resonation with
Peter. I felt a difference in my bearing yesterday and how I walked. This new
aspect felt feminine and she rose from the dark. I found myself thinking about
the dark side of the goddess which every woman touches in her monthly cycle.
Miranda Gray in her book Red Moon writes as follows: “The goddess was seen as
manifest in the three light phases of the moon as a trinity of growth, fruition
and decay, reflecting the transient cycle of the seasons and of life. The
unmanifest goddess was the dark phase of the moon, the womb, the invisible,
continuous source of life. Later depictions of the moon goddess showed her as a
trinity rather than a four-fold aspect not because the dark aspect was unknown,
but because she was hidden to the human eye like the dark phase of the moon.
She was the darkness of the invisible, unmanifest, the source of life and
potential. And was the essence of the whole cycle, as the light could not be
perceived except in relationship to the darkness.”
When the cycle was split the dark goddess came to
represent death and destruction instead as an essential part of the whole. As
the Temptress, She is full of sexuality and knows how to use her power. And she
has made her presence known to me. She echoes within my shadow and she has a
wolf by her side. She calls me to acknowledge her and to own some of her power,
I feel her as strength, within my being, She straightens my spine and looks out
from my eyes. Oh Peter do you realise who your shaman has woken up?
I went walking. I took a note book with me today as
I often find my thoughts useful and then forget to record them when I return.
Lots of things were buzzing round my head but not until I recalled an AA Milne
poem ‘Half way up the Stairs’ did I start making notes. ‘It isn’t really
anywhere, it’s somewhere else instead.’ Is the last line and seemed a useful
description of where resonation takes you.
As I walk I notice how calm the sea is and how
usually I would tune into it but not today. I am in touch with and aware of a
deeper energy and keep wondering what impression I left Peter with on Thursday.
I feel a familiar urge to contact him but go through all the usual injunctions.
I really want him to call me and I wonder if our telepathic link has been
strengthened by Thursday. I send out a call. I know it is there but as yet
seems to operate unconsciously.
I reflect on the magnolia flower and the drawing I
did for him yesterday.
I want to give it to him and I know where he will be
this morning from a previous phone conversation. Do I have the nerve to go and
find him? I feel a sense of something deeper than the both of us as somehow
effecting our connection, moving us into position.
I really feared my head would spin out of control
yesterday but I am so pleased it hasn’t. I know it is all inside me I feel
secure in my trust for Peter and know that he knows what he is doing. I also
feel secure in my lack of physical desire for him as a man. I know our
connection to be soul based, he is my teacher and he is helping me to wake up
to my power.
Yet another phenomenal change has occurred within me
through resonation. It did shake me a bit on Thursday but I knew then my trust
was sound. Peter had mentioned earlier in that session about a twinkle in my
eye recently, was that her peeking out to test the water? I realise She has
been around for a while, waiting for me to own her as part of myself. I just
needed the nudge in the right direction.
I still longed to see Peter and to show him who was
looking out from my eyes. I decided to use this new aspect and dare to walk
through another imaginary boundary. I took the picture of the magnolia with me
and forced myself to appear before him with the words if I was invasive I
wouldn’t stay. He seemed surprised to see me but motioned for me to sit. I gave
him the picture but crossing that boundary took so much I couldn’t speak to
him. Thankfully I had my note book still with me and gave it to him to read
while I tried to centre myself.
Why do I have this reaction? He has never rejected
me yet some old pattern expects it. As always he made it okay and I managed to
relax enough to talk to him. We talked about Thursday and I told him some of
what has been going through my head mentioning a further conversation when we
next meet.
After a short time in his company we ‘connected’ and
all my nerves vanished. He was pleased with the written sessions I left with
him. Said I’m the only one who has made the effort to do so. He read of a
different sense of himself and his work. He thanked me but it is my pleasure to
do it. He said something about seeing himself as a composer who, with no one to
listen to his music, has taken to writing it instead. He could play for me all
day and others should hear it too. I will do my best to make sure they do.
“You can take me there to a distant place I’ve never
been before,
I could leave this world
I could follow you like oceans to the shore.
You can take me there make the rivers of my mind
flow through my dreams.”
I guess it is the depth of my feelings towards him
which causes me to feel nervous each time I see him. After a few minutes I seem
to calm down and find the place in which we meet. Somehow he always looks
different face to face than he does in my mind. I guess I hold a sense of him
built-up in layers. That is the Peter I need to refind each time we meet. I
don’t really know the outer Peter very well, yet he knows so much of me.
He not only accepts me but welcomes me and I don’t
get the feeling he is responding to my outer shell at all. It is a deeper me he
sees. In seeing me and accepting me on that level it allows me a greater self-acceptance.
He knows my soul and that fact is just so incredibly amazing. I have inside of
me an awareness of him seeing my soul, and have felt it myself, through his
eyes. It is almost like being in love but so much better, deeper and longer
lasting.
Supplement to Session 12, Sunday 27th .
Morning Meditation:
I have just been recalling Thursday’s resonation, I
took myself back to the point where I became confused with the feelings aroused
within my being by Peter’s wolf. I relived the intensity by bringing back into
myself the sensation which was rising up from my depths. I wanted to ride the
waves and see where it would take me without the distraction of his physical
being to confuse my senses. Suddenly I knew it for what it was and I allowed
the feeling to wash over me. I had a name, a sense of its tonality it was
blissful to acknowledge it. I wondered what the Greek word would be, realising
the richer definition would have more meaning than the impoverished word we use
today.
I felt within my being the depth of my love. Knew my
love, was within my love and felt its power surround me. I saw the magnolia
flower and understood its purity. Felt the deep magenta pink at its base as it
sat held by the brown stem attaching it to its tree, rose up the petals
becoming more delicate as the white made its presence felt.
Oh the White . . . ., you are right Peter the white
is too beautiful to touch, the feeling would be overwhelming. I have never
experienced a depth of feeling like this. I could feel it wanting to burst out
my eyes as I gaze at you. To communicate its self to you. But you know it don’t
you? You were there before me. It has taken a journey through my shadow to
allow myself to see, to know.
I have, like so many of our society been restricted
by a limited idea of what love really is and where it is to be experienced. I
never knew I could love a man like this, without physical desire. Thank you for
releasing me from my bonds. My sketch of our flower is such a small thing to
give you, as ever my art is before my awareness. In drawing it I have given it
an expression, a physicality I had not yet allowed myself to identify. That is
what I meant when I said I didn’t quite understand the symbolism of the flower.
These feeling tones of awareness have been
blossoming within me. Your gift has taken me on a journey of self-discovery which
I never want to end. How many more flowers do I have the capacity to express?
You have opened my eyes to my potentiality and I can never thank you enough for
the richness I being to feel in my being and my life.
You are a very special being and I am thankful on a
daily basis that whatever bond there is between us has drawn me back to your
side. Last week as I was writing down our session together I wrote these words:
‘I could just sit at his feet and drink in his wisdom. I find myself complete
in his company’. It came from my heart and I hope you saw the glow in my eyes
when you described me as your left-hand woman. I will try to deserve the honour
you give me.
Session Thirteen. Thursday 1st May 2003
‘Inner body
awareness’ is sensuous by nature. What we consider to be ‘electricity’ between
two people arises when our inner body awareness cannot be fully contained
within. It rises to the surface, our fleshly surface and we seek a discharge of
this energy through physical contact.
The feeling we identify as love is a bliss of a sensuous inner soul
connection needing no physical contact or intimacy. Sexual contact and intimacy
is more to do with blissful physical sensations.
P asked about my week and how I had embodied the new
aspect of myself. I talked about having more energy than usual, feeling more
confident in myself, of my spontaneous trip to London the day before. As I
spoke I felt energized and knew it was showing on my face and shining through
my eyes. As I looked at P our eyes locked for several minutes. I had a sense of
him reading me, feeling my awareness with his.
I told him how I had been noticing colours even more
than usual, that they seemed to be singing at me. He asked what colour I would
use to describe my experience and I said magenta without hesitation. He
wondered what I thought of the colour yellow. I responded that I have been
influenced by Steiner realising that yellow has a spreading quality to it. He
told me of a dream he had this week involving yellow and a red pentangle with
my name around it.
Neither of us could make much sense of it though. I
did say I understood yellow to mean knowledge. But that didn’t seem to help.
Later I thought the usual association is jealousy but don’t think that would
make sense either.(?) Maybe it is one to come back to. (Note to Peter: could
this dream have been precognitive of our resonation, when I was trying to
‘be-witch’ you? What do you think? or have I already? Ha ha!!)
We talked for a long time again today and it was
quite late before I braved to ask if we had time to meditate/resonate, explore
each others interiority, psychically meld our awareness, whatever. He asked if
I wanted to? Like asking a child if they would like a sweet!
He wanted me to try and embody the goddess aspect I
had written about in last weeks notes. So I tried, felt myself sink deeper and
deeper into the dark space of my inner being, into my unbound interiority. I
think I found a sense of her and allowed her to look out my eyes into his. I
clearly felt his essence link into mine.
I began to feel I was challenging him with my power,
pushing him. A little voice in my head was speaking to him, asking if he could
take what I threw at him. And of course he could. As I drew deeper within
myself and extended my feeling body towards him he remained solid beneath my
gaze. So I tried a different tack, began to draw him into myself, enfolded
myself around him, turned my gaze inward to pull him in deeper and deeper.
At some point in these games he started to make
suggestions and put me through my paces. Like we had in a previous session he
took on withdrawn aspects and challenged me to draw him out. Suggested like all
men he was scared of my power, how would I deal with that? Then that he was
walled up inside and vulnerable. He then got angry with me for looking into his
vulnerable places. I think I passed the tests. I enjoyed the challenge and felt
an improvement in my abilities from the last time.
After that we went deeper into each other’s being. I
recalled him saying earlier that thinking in terms of sending someone energy is
masculine. Why not receive someone fully in the embrace of our awareness? So
that is what I tried to do. I opened up my awareness to receive him. I
‘intended’ to wrap my psychic self around his, as opposed to pushing myself
into him. Our connection became deeper and deeper.
At times I was aware of ‘holding’ the feeling to
amplify it, at others I rode on the waves of the feeling tone rising from
within. I didn’t have any images but the feeling was so incredible. I could
feel myself fill up to almost bursting with the intensity of it. At the same
time it felt I was deep within myself and him. The blend was stronger than last
week and I had no thought that I couldn’t handle it. At some moments it felt as
if we had both stopped breathing, in that space between out breath and in
breath.
At times I was aware of a heat between us but that
was my only physical sensation, otherwise I was totally lost within yet without
at the same time. Feeling without boundaries yet also at the far reaches of
them, it was exquisite. I didn’t want it to end, I could have sat there all
day. But P has a better sense of time than I and brought things to a halt.
After a few minutes we started to talk but realising
the time I had to leave. I was pushing it to collect my daughter and it was her
birthday. The next few hours were like torture. In a conflict between my inner
and outer world I learnt an important lesson: that I must leave time to walk
home slowly. I had to have a walk that evening, time to write up my notes, read
what P had given me, a long meditation next morning and another walk, all
before I could begin to come back to my centre. But I did manage to do it and
was quite pleased with myself. A few weeks ago and I would have found it much
harder.
The following afternoon I called P to go through
what had happened.
Phone call: 2nd May
P had been able to sit and reflect on our experience
for some time. When he heard what I had been through he said he was impressed!
I do love praise, it makes me glow!
He described what he had been doing as a whole body
resonance. Many times when he is sitting face to face with someone, he is very
in touch with his inwardness and able to attend to the inwardness of the other,
in this case me. He is able to dissolve bodily boundaries and in doing so felt
his soul in my body and filled it up.
In essence it was a direct transfer of power. He
calls this awareness of others shadow gazing, looking into the dark pupil into
the dark inner space. He had been intensifying the transfer to such an extent
he was not surprised I felt I had reached my boundaries. In giving me power he
was also empowering me, filling me with his self.
The earlier phase had been about me exercising my
intent and my own power. He had felt me doing something before he had even
asked me to. He said I was effective in what I was doing but needed to work on
my outer aspects particularly my eyes.
I mentioned taking note of his comments to still my
eyes but at times had been very aware of inner sensations, which caused my eyes
to flicker. He told me when I had kept them still, a clearer aspect had shone
through. He mentioned the connection to Carlos Castaneda, the unblinking gaze
and unbending intent. Also in what he says about maintaining the impecability
of the ordinary self while keeping awareness of the extraordinary self. I’d had
a lesson in that aspect yesterday! We talked about organising our time together
in a more constructive way! Leaving time to meld and talk afterwards. We both
have to stop being so polite and more blunt with each other!
Session Fourteen. 8th May 03
We started today’s session talking about an e-mail
letter I had sent to P. in it I had posed a question about whether my ‘being’
had taken him somewhere new. He told me that ‘deep-sensing’ is a connection he
deliberately establishes in order for it to take him somewhere new.
He also made reference to my comment about Florinda
Donna when I mentioned being influenced by her petulance. P sees this as me
‘getting into her spirit’ and allowing something to rub off onto me. He
identifies this as a very important basic skill. It has similarities to
creating the ‘double’, inner body/inner being. That my ‘sense-impression’ of
Florinda engendered some sort of ‘double’.
He referred back to our last resonation for an
example. A whole body resonance can work in two ways, 1. feeling your soul in
the others body or 2. feeling their soul in your body. This relates in a way to
inner connection in general. There are times when we are physically together
and times when we are apart. The balance of these times is important but he
didn’t say why. However if I feel a connection with him when I am not actually
in his company then there is a connection.
When you read a book and catch a sense of the
author’s fundamental mood the next step is to find yourself embodying the
‘double’ of the other and this is very significant. This was leading us into
the area of having ‘designs’ on other people’s awareness.
When you are with someone you find that you ‘catch a
mood’ from their demeanour. The important thing for this work is to able to
‘hold’ the sense of your at-tune-ment and then to stay with your ‘residual
sense’ of them once they have left your company.
The sense within you is the other’s embodied
presence, or ‘double’. If you stay with that residual sense and allow it to
engender a mood in you, you open yourself to forming a new aspect of yourself.
There then needs to be a third person with whom you experiment ‘embodying’
these aspects to.
When we are with someone we are influenced by their
‘inner body’. We can become conscious of this process and chose to ‘body’ the
aspects we ‘sense’ to expand our own identity or otherwise it comes out
unconsciously in our dreams.
There are three stages to feeling:
- Feeling ourselves and our inner body.
- Opening ourselves to feel the ‘draught’ of the others feeling/embodied presence, (by turning one’s body into a ‘sense organ’ then descending into ones ‘inner self’. To decide to ‘feel’ the other.)
- the residual sense of the other held within by ‘time-binding’
The important thing to develop is one’s handling of
the transitions between situations or activities in such a way as to safeguard
one’s residual sense of where one has just been. When you have ‘no-words’ about
something you are put in touch with your ‘felt’ understanding or ’residual’
senses.
When engaging in ‘time-binding’ make sure to take
time to stay with your ‘residual sense’ as what comes out of that is a deeper
sense of what has past or a deeper sense of the other.
We talked a bit about my art course and my day at
collage. I mentioned a tutorial where the group of philosophers known as
phenomenologists were referenced in how I talked about my work. Of course P
knew about them and surprise, surprise they have a connection to his work. He
told me of the trail which leads back to Martin Heidegger from Castaneda via
the tutor at UCLA, Harold Garfinkel and another German, Alfred Schutz, who
introduced social phenomenology to America.
Garfinkle was interested in ‘ethno methodology’, the
study of paradox. We all lead a social life and we also talk about it. The
words we use are very important as they create an agreed account of what
happened. How events are documented relates directly to the ‘facts’ which are
agreed upon and understood. People talk most often to reenforce points of
departure that are never questioned.
Words define our world and we have accepted codes of
discourse and codes of conduct which serve to create an agreed understanding.
But Garfinkel wondered what happens if people break these codes? He encouraged
his students to act differently in familiar situations and to notice what
happened from a different perspective.
He posed the idea that there is a deeper
understanding of events – what is actually going on. In Carlos Castaneda’s
books, his shaman, Juan Matus draws our attention to this partly by introducing
new terms and breaking down the language by using different words. In his later
books the events are remembered after they took place, just like dreams,
Seth also talks about an inner order of events from
a different perspective. He wrote that dreams are a residual sense and as such
can be ‘bodied’, that physical symptoms might be one way to experience this.
That ‘bodying’ and dreaming are two aspects of events and they give expression
to deeper events which have occurred within our being. The dream we ‘remember’
is already an interpretation of a deeper level event and we actually ‘dream-up’
waking life events and form them in the same way. It is however the deeper
events which are significant.
The German philosopher Martin Heidegger wrote that
we are constantly projecting ourselves into the future. The word in German
which he used means both ‘here’ and ‘there’ which are equal in time. We are
both ‘here’ and sending out a ‘double’ to ‘there’ at the same time.
Going back to the ‘direct communication of
awareness’ P wanted to stress the absolute bottom line principle: the
understanding of your awareness of another person communicates directly to
them. Knowing this is different to understanding it. Listening is a form of
active communication of awareness.
In ‘deep sensing’ the other will be aware of being
‘taken in’ in a quite different way. Conversely if you ‘body’ an awareness that
too will be picked up, if you convey a message it will be communicated.
He suggested to me that I practice resonation with
out doing resonation. That is, to ‘intend’ to feel myself, now: as open to receive
the other, now: bodying forth a message. Afterwards I am to stay with my
‘residual sense’, and to feel the double of the other ‘inner sensing’ them. He
called this an everyday relational practice of dream-body awareness.
I had told P earlier of a dream I had had that
morning when I came to visit him early at 6 o’clock. He said this was an
example of sending out a double.
For today’s resonation P wanted me to take the lead.
He reminded me of an exercise we had tried in our first session, of deep inner
touch coupled with an outer touch of hand to hand. Well I couldn’t do it back
in January and it seemed as if nothing had changed. I found it impossible to
touch him, putting my knees around his was bad enough. I tried and tried to
centre myself but failed each time. P used eye contact to draw me into myself
but although I was centred even that didn’t work. I could not seem to lift my
hand off my own knee.
I told him I had identified this block a few weeks
ago and had intended to ask him if we could try this exercise again. Somehow I
hadn’t got around to it and now I knew why. So he tried a different approach.
He reminded me where I was to ‘come from’: my hara. He held his hand against my belly and got me to push against
it using my diaphragm muscles at the same time as being centred there. I could
immediately notice the difference and felt in-touch with my own power.
Instead of getting me to then touch his hand with
mine he instructed me how to hold his right hand across my left, my right
fingers within his palm. I was to deepen my inner gaze until I felt ready to
touch him with my being. As I did so I was to ‘find’ the ‘soul centre’ in his
palm with my finger and to apply pressure in direct relation to how strongly I
was projecting my ‘felt sense’.
We tried this first with his eyes shut, which he
opened when he felt my touch. Afterwards he asked me where I had been coming
from. I said my womb. He asked if from my heart as well and I acknowledged that
aspect was there, he had felt the affection. I have been within a millimetre of
the right stop on his hand too. ???We tried it again with his eyes open to
begin with. He then took my hand and did the same to me.
We experienced another really lovely contact. There
was a deep inner being sensuous feel to it. As I reached into him I knew he
felt my touch. As his finger searched my palm I could feel his touch within my
whole being. I found myself responding with almost, equal intensity. He asked how I rated the experience on a 1-10
scale. I asked his or mine? As his was 10+ mine felt like 8-9 in comparison. He
got me to do the exercise one more time, eyes open, and to this time ‘fill him
up’ in his belly and chest area, with my ‘deep sense’.
This just took me so much deeper into my inner being
that the old memory fails again! It was
such a deep, deep contact. At some point he took his hand away and we sank into
another dimension. At some point in the earlier stages he placed his hand on my
belly again reminding me where my power was to come from, that this was not a
relaxation. The power was within the ‘tension’ of the muscles, diaphragm and
eyes, and the ‘intention’ of the being/gaze.
And boy could I feel it! My whole body was quivering
with my intent as we blended our beings together. The feeling is sublime,
exquisite and at the same time amazingly ‘normal’. When we are actually joined
psychically it has such a reality about it. It is only afterwards I realise how
far we have been in our inner depths and also how fantastic it felt. Only in
its absence do I really appreciate the loss. Only when I have come back to
myself do I really miss the connection with him.
This work just gets better and better, deeper and
deeper as does my relationship with Peter.
He took over at one point once we had started to
return to ourselves. He told me to follow him and I tried. I could see he was
sounding vowels and attempted to mirror his facial expressions. It felt like a
prayer but not the Lord’s. He explained it was a Jewish prayer and had me say
the words after him. I’m not too good with new languages but he had me try
again and again until I said it right. The basic message was one of conscious
submission of the ego to the power of God. Not about surrender it is not a
passive letting go but choosing to submit.
We had a short time to compare experiences and
shared points of contact, before I had to leave at 3 o’clock again!!! He gave
me lots to read.
Later that evening Peter called me on the phone. He
had wanted to express his enjoyment of our session and to let me know he was
impressed with my achievements. I have a good teacher! He wanted to also go
over the main aims of today, to confirm the degrees of intensity in these
practices. The ego allows you to
‘embody’ by ‘in-tensing’ the muscles. An embodiment of intensity and intent is
directly related to the combination of ego and essence. It is an inward
tensioning using thoughts by becoming aware of one’s head and muscles at the
same time.
He wanted to check out that he wasn’t overloading me
and I reassured him he wasn’t.
We spent some time talking about writing and the
development of one’s own ‘language’. Words are never your own but language can
be. It is important to find the words we resonate with to find the
philosophical depths of what we read and what we want to say. We also spoke
about discipline and finding a balance with spontaneity. I feel I am not
disciplined as I tend to only do what I like doing. Peter told me to be gentle
with my art and allow it to gestate. If the inner impulse is strong enough one
will overcome the initial pain to reap the rewards of applying one’s self to
the task.
Session Fifteen. Thursday 16th May.
On my walk this morning I had been thinking about a
small phrase Sh’meyah had written in his last letter to Abaie - love is not
greedy. It set something off in me and I was aware of retreating into myself,
like a hermit crab into its shell. Greedy was a word that had haunted me for
all of my life. My grandma had been a very over weight woman and I had been
given the message that food was an enemy. But food was also a metaphor for love
in my family and I had grown up with the belief I wanted too much of everything
from love to life, the very life-stuff which feeds us. But how much is too
much?
I took these musings to Peter as I needed to check
out what he had meant by his statement. Was he trying to tell me I wanted too
much from him? I had never received that impression before but somehow I was
always expecting to be too much and anticipated rejection. I realised that I
had been carrying guilt around with me for years because I had many
expectations of life and people. I had tended to try and bury my needs, with
food, feeling that somehow I was in the wrong. My continuing weight loss a
concrete demonstration of what really feeds us. I was no longer using food the
same way and was having to deal with root issues.
My first session with Peter had exposed the black
hole inside me which I felt could never be filled although I had tried to do so
with food. But working with him has taught me this ‘hole’ is a gateway to my
inner being which is endless and boundless. In response to which I realised
that I really want nothing, ‘no thing’ at all. When I am ‘grounded’ within, I
am completely satisfied, it is only my head which tells me I have needs and
wants. The part of me ‘in the world’, but I know I am ‘not of this world’
although I am in it.
Peter was quite clear about the intention of his
statement. It was in no way directed at me. More it was a comment on the
expansive nature of love. It would be easy for us to indulge in our inner
connection but the real benefit of our link is to reach out to others. Love is
inclusive not exclusive, there to be shared. Like the colour yellow, love’s
tendency is to spread out.
We spoke a lot about dreaming. I told him of two
dreams I had this morning:
1. Took place
in his room, he had, hanging on the chimney breast, two pieces of wire I had
twisted together. It was copper and silver, had a loop at each end and was
shaped like a bow. I had not given it any value but Peter liked it and had
asked if he could keep it. There was a similar shaped artefact also hanging up
and they over lapped. End. (Note to P;
as I wrote this I was reminded of my lucid dream in which I asked you to
‘remind’ me where I had put ‘something’. I think this is it, you had it all
along and I ‘forgot’ its value!!!)
Peter had woken at some point in the night and had a
sense of me being in the room. He suggested that next time I experience a lucid
dream I could try and visit him to wake him up. He is able to stay in that
space between being asleep and fully awake to enter the world of dreams. This
also made reference to another dream of mine when Peter had whispered to me
about being together when we dream.
2. Took place
on a beach, a woman had been rescued by the police but they had not untied her
hands from behind her back. A man she was involved with stood by but didn’t
know what to do to help. Meanwhile an older man who she had previously been
married to came and took the ropes off. He then laid a board on the sand and
stood a sailing boat on it, there was a hole in the board for the tiller to
stand in making it safe to board. His actions had the sense of nurturing about
them. He knew what to do to help her to feel better and safe. He not only
provided shelter but knew how much the boat would mean to her.
I think we both understood the dream but spent some
time looking at the words I had used as a way to understand the expression of
dreams. The idea of ‘rescue’, ‘having one’s hands tied’, the natural setting;
the beach and sea, which are important to both of us. Phrases like: ‘an older
man’ ‘providing shelter’, ‘he knew what to do’, also the past connection
between them. All these words are access points to understanding the language
of the dream and therefore the communication from my inner being, my
‘dreambody’, which created the dream as an expression of a deeper event.
“The word of the dream is inwardly connected to the word of the body, not in the sense
Freud assumed but in a quite different way. A person with a sore throat reports
finding things “hard to swallow”. “Having “one’s hands tied” and “finding
things hard to swallow”, are both expressions with an endo-referential as well
as an exo-referential sense. They do not merely denote some externally
identifiable ‘thing’ that the speaker sees or senses – a dream image of the
woman or a body part such as the throat. Both the word of the dream and of the
body have an endo-referential meaning. They give expression to inner bodily
conditions - conditions of our “dreambody”. For the feeling of “having one’s
hands tied” or “finding things difficult to swallow” is an inner-bodily
feeling, whether or not one’s outer ‘physical’ body actually has its hands tied
or finds things difficult to swallow. It is out of such inner-bodily states –
conditions of our dreambody - that both dream symbols and bodily symptoms
arise. The bodily symptom of the sore throat a type of ‘body dream’. The woman in the dream was a ‘dreamt body’.
Both give expression to conditions of our inner body
or dreambody.”
The rest of today’s session was my introduction to
Abaie, during eye-contact resonation with Peter. He began by talking to me
about his own experiments with the sounds of the letters. He felt the first ‘a’
was a low sound and came from the hara,
we silently spoke the letter at the same time as mouthing the ‘sound’ to each
other. I could feel myself sink low with my being.
The ‘b’ as in boundary and bubble has an inner sense
of rising to the surface. As we sounded this letter I felt myself expand to my
physical boundaries and at Peter’s suggestion extended my ‘self’ beyond them. I
was filled with the inner sound of the letter, ‘b’-coming ‘b’-igger. The next
‘a’ has a higher tone than the first, coming from the solar plexus and rising
up through the top of my head, to far stars. The ‘i’ sounds like ee and expands
out to the sides. The ‘e’ comes back in and down as ‘eh’, sinking deep, deep
down. Peter drew my attention to the circular motion in the name. We practiced
the sounds together then he asked me to go within myself and really get a feel
of the whole word, the spirit of Abaie, then to ‘send’ him that felt sense.
So I did….. I rang the name over and over within my
inner being, following that circular movement from down in my hara, up to my physical boundary, out
through the top of my head, extending to the sides then back in deeper and
deeper. Each time I followed through the cycle I went deeper and deeper into
Abaie, feeling him within me.
I could feel a stinging in my eyes and realized the
familiarity of it. I had experienced the same feeling in several resonations
with my friends and most strongly the Sunday before. It was him wanting to look
out from my eyes. Recognizing this I allowed him through and the stinging
stopped. I wanted to sit up straighter and my shoulders felt huge. I recognized
him, I knew his feel, remembered all the times he has sat within me waiting for
my realization. Looking out from my eyes
into Peter, I, as Abaie, projected myself to him and saw recognition reflected
in Peter’s eyes.
We sat in resonation, blending our psyches and our
felt sense of this inner aspect of my being.
Another truly amazing experience.
When we spoke afterwards Peter told me he had ‘heard’
my repetition of the name resound within him. He agreed with my physical
description of Abaie as big and strong, emotionally strong as well, but
incredibly gentle.
Session Sixteen. Thursday 22nd May.
Peter began today by outlining a structure for these
sessions and his reasons behind it. He wishes me to become adept in this work
by mastering the guiding words. He intends to add to the stock of these words
for me to learn their deep definitions. To this end he will begin each session
with a discourse wanting me to note down the guiding words.
He stressed the importance for me to prepare myself
for each session I conduct by meditating on the specific words I will use. I
have been aware that Peter prepares thoroughly for our meetings. Just that
morning I had been in town shopping at 9.55 when I wondered where he might be,
knowing he starts his day in town with a coffee.
I knew that wherever
he was he would be thinking about me and preparing for our time together. Such
dedication and commitment to any individual is truly admirable. To know myself
as the object of such consideration causes my heart to continually expand with
love. To realise I need to develop equal care with who I work with is indeed
sobering, a real responsibility.
He wanted to bring my attention to the first session
notes I had retyped last week. He noticed the absence of the word abdomen when
I wrote about the hara. He would like
me to include a reference to the ‘abode’ when I go through the meditation in
more detail and to stress the motion of deep breathing, being from the feet
upwards, into the belly first.
When he said this I realised I had switched what had
occurred in our introduction meeting and the first proper session. In that very
first meeting he had gone through the head, heart and hara but in January he had indeed drawn my attention upwards from
my feet. The motion of deep breathing had been into my belly from the lower
ground, the under body.
He also drew my attention to inner body awareness as
something I could mention: the aware inwardness of the body being composed of
field qualities and tonalities of awareness.
Peter had also noticed I had included a description
of his room in the new account. It had led him to wonder what I had noticed
within his space. I went around the room and it was interesting what I had
missed. The main being two rams horns on the mantelpiece yet I must have looked
at them so many times. He asked me to stand up and see if I could say what the
most important item to him was. It wasn’t a test, just a bit of fun but
whenever I am called upon to do something ‘psychic’ I instantly freeze.
I looked around and mention all the items I have
noticed over the few months I have been seeing him: a little black ram, a
mineral paperweight, a mask behind the computer. I thought it might be around
that area as I like to have special items where I can see them, although my
eyes were drawn to the book case behind Peter and the several pictures of
people around the place. I mentioned this and Peter asked how many images I
could see.
I went round the room from the photos on the desk,
past Martin Heidegger on the wall inside the door, (we spent a few minutes
talking about him), to the postcards on the mantelpiece finally to the drawing
on the top of the book case behind him. Hardly an overwhelming display of my
abilities as this last picture was the item in question.
The image is of Anton Bruckner a composer I had
never heard of. Peter told me how important his nine symphonies have been to
him because of the depths of the music. Peter has designs for my inner music
education. Beginning with Philip Glass, a modern composer, he lent me his
concerto for violin and orchestra.
He talked about the Direction and Disciplines of the
Dreambody arts. The importance of daily exercising your ‘intent’, to stay
seated in your hara, by balancing
awareness of upper and lower body. In moving your entire awareness to the lower
body and ‘grounding’ yourself you speak from a deeper voice. ‘Total Body
Awareness’ means constantly checking out where your intention lies and to learn
to feel the insideness of your body and dwell there comfortably.
The guiding principle is when you are in touch with
your body as a whole you are in touch with your self as a whole.
Peter also talked about the connection between deep
diagnosis and medicine sounds. Disease begins with a felt sense of ‘dis-ease’.
This is a dislocation with an inner body state, when people have a limited
range of identity and therefore body alphabet. This dis-ease becomes somatic
when there is incapacity to give outward body expression to inner body states.
People basically lack the language.
There is a close connection with sound and health.
The inner language is based on sounds and without a range of inner sounds the
inner aspects go unexpressed. The biggest problem and dis-ease of our time is
the lack of the vowel sound ‘eh’. We have lost the ability to descend.
The rest of today’s session we did some work on
inner, silent sounds, the ones of our inner names. Adopting our usual
positions, face to face, Peter first asked me to ‘sound’ my first name, Ave, Ah
v ee eh. I went through it several times then added my second name, Abaie, Ah
ba ee eh. Peter said it felt lovely. He found a change in him from thinking
about outside issues to feeling refreshed.
We sounded the names together. Then Peter introduced
me to two of his ‘inner names’ - Vedor, V-ee-d-or and Sh’meyah, Sh-m-eh-y-ah.
He took much longer to go through each letter and I could feel the power
contained within each one. Awesome power, which I felt resound deep in my soul,
filling me up and taking me deep within myself. Never again will I doubt the
power of sound, the magic in words and letters. I can quite believe the ancient
druids used sound to move the stones at Stonehenge. It was an incredible
experience and one from which I was reluctant to return.
Session
17. Thursday 29th May – first poetic record
With love and care
you nurtured my organic soul
Tending the
fertile soil and planting the seeds of your wisdom
From within the
darkness growth came forth
As your intent
strengthened my resolve
I sat at your feet
drinking in your honeyed words
Listening with
equal care
Letting them fall
like rain onto parched earth
Little knowing who
else would overhear
I have a message
for you, I know not what it is
The tree which
grew when you reached into me
Brings a flower to
behold
Can you see its
meaning if I draw it for you?
A voice came
through the darkness
Do you see me, do
you know me?
Will you
acknowledge me?
Will you hold me
or do you fear the fire?
Easier to sense
the physicality of the serpent
Believe in
temptation and integrity
Stay strong and
withstand the call
But she too knew
patience and bided her time
Silently she moved
into position
“Try out the whole
body sensing”, the whisper came
Innocently I
answered the call
Following a deeper
instinct to connect to you in love
Your gaze opened
me up like a flower in the sun
Like a bee you
came this time to drink my honey
We ate of the tree
of knowledge
Choosing to fall
into each other
Spiralling
together into divine bliss
Separate again the
distance seemed too vast
Floating within myself
fear took hold
Did I go too far?
Is his veil still
there, can he yet see her in me?
Retreating into
lonely space aching all the while
Your scent
lingered to taunt me
I could still see
your smile
As we had
acknowledged the pleasure of our union
Through that space
the answer three times came
My heart swells
fit to burst into a thousand songs
Validated into
being She looks through my eyes into yours
In doing so
becomes part of me as I am part of you.
Session Seventeen supplement:
I have been thinking about power and love, again. I
realised that I have been repeating a pattern and it is based on the romantic
notions of love so prevalent in today’s society. We are sold the idea that we
are somehow not complete until we have someone to love who loves us. Two people
come together and become one. I now see that unless each person is whole any
relationship is formed out of need, one believing they must ‘have’ the other.
But all the time we look to another to make us whole we can never be so. What
we really need is to take control of our own power not give it away. No one and
no thing has the power to make us happy unless we believe it to be so. That
belief is our power. If we stopped looking outside of ourselves and looked
within we would find so much potential to be more than we ever thought
possible.
I found an entry in my walking note book, written 4th
May:
“Recognise the fluid nature of your being. As water
flows so do you. Allow the flow to go where it needs to. Then learn that you
can direct the flow with your intent.
This is the power you seek, it is within you. Trust the flow and things will
happen beyond your wildest imaginings. TRUST and INTENT are all you need. There
is no such thing as pollution when it comes to the feelings of the soul. All
things are equal. You are all you need to be, you are one in All That Is, you
are never disconnected from your source, re-member.
All will be well.
All is well.
All is as it should be and continues to flow into
ever greater potentials. Life does not stop, God does not stop, it is all as it
should be and continues to be. Beingness is the state you can achieve because
you are already there, just remember this.
Love is all there is, everything else is an
illusion. You have been dipping into a deep well of love so expect some
changes! Allow the flow and go with it into your deepest being. It is all love
seeking expression of itself. Try not to get caught up in should or shouldn’t,
you are learning all about your power, the power of love. It fills your being,
you are consumed and feeling full up but you are not overwhelmed. Trust in the
process, let go and in letting go you will find your power. Love is the only
safety. Don’t get caught up in the world of the ego, IT is playing games but
you don’t have to. Just breathe into your centre and remember.”
But I have allowed myself to get caught up in my
ego, I keep forgetting to ground myself, all because of my romantic notions. It
is the same issue every time we have a deep resonation. Each time I go deeper
into myself and touch my own power I see it as Peter who made it happen. But it
is not, he opens a door but I am the one who walks through it. I am learning to
use his teachings and techniques, me. He was not expecting or directing what
occurred between us last week. I must wake up to myself. The power is within
me, no one else. That is what he has been trying to get me to see. I am
complete within myself. He doesn’t make me whole, I am the one who does that.
Together we have a combined power but only as two
complete in themselves, not as halves making one. That is what he was trying to
tell me the other day two + two. He and his divinity + me and mine. That is the
way forward, for all of mankind. We need to feel complete within our self
otherwise joining in based on need and that is not healthy.
Session Eighteen. Thursday 5th June.
The first part of today was a discourse on what
Peter has been writing as the last part of Peter’s book ‘From New Age to New
Gnosis’. I didn’t take notes and as it is written else where will not be
recording it here.
To begin our meditation today Peter asked me to
concentrate on my head, being aware of the surface, to feel it so intensely to
the point of feeling it no more. The next step was to allow my awareness to
spiral downwards into the dark space of my inner belly, the hara. We began to explore the dark of
our own interiority, filling ourselves with the dark substantiality of this
inner dimension of being.
Peter then invited me to look into the dark pupil of
his eyes, into his inner being. I tuned into whole body sensing as he asked me
to feel into the dark, to feel the woods and sense an animal. His request
activated my mind’s eye and I was in the dark woods with all my senses
expanding into there within. I felt like a deer, sensing a predator, the whole
of my being listening.
Peter then drew my attention to my outer boundary
wanting me to almost turn myself inside out psychically, to feel the space
beyond myself. I found this hard to do, initially. The inner journey is very
familiar now and I have found I can shift my consciousness with ease. However
this was quite a challenge and took some time to achieve. He suggested my outer
skin was my sense organ for everything beyond. After a while I lost touch with
my inner body, sensing outwards with my ‘feeling body’. I become aware of
Peter, could sense his ‘feeling body’. He drew my attention to the space in all
directions and to the light poring into me.
Just as I was getting used to being outside of
myself he asked me to return to the dark within. I felt more comfortable here
and as I began to expand into the dark he instructed me to go back out of
myself again. Somewhat reluctantly I did as I was told, struggling again with
this new practice: Drawing in the light, again becoming porous, an
all-seeing-eye, an orb all sensing, and filling with light.
And there within the light Peter introduced colour,
as the place we can be together. In my mind’s eye I saw two clouds of light
infused with all the colours of the rainbow, spiralling together, intertwining.
Now becoming one colour, he suggested. I saw red but also sensed blue and mixed
them to create magenta, a very red hue of magenta with scarlet flashes.
As I watched Peter fully absorb the colour I felt
our ‘feeling bodies’ being to meld. I saw pain on his face and wondered what it
was about. I was aware of some part of me holding back. As far as I sensed him
move towards me l responded, as he drew back I did the same. I was mirroring
his movements but not taking any initiative to go further, almost withholding myself,
wanting him to push me to make a move, but he didn’t. We continued this dance
for a while enjoying the movements. Then he broke the contact and ended the
meditation.
As he did so and I began the journey back to within
my usual boundaries I became aware of a pain in my neck and shoulders. A long
time passed before I could even look at Peter as I was struggling to focus on
what I was feeling inside, on what was causing this pain. He spoke about using
physical keys to ground your self after meditation but I didn’t take much of it
in as I was in too much pain. He said I looked sad and I acknowledged that I
was but didn’t know why.
He told me of his experience of our meditation and
it matched mine. He too had seen the colours spiral together and his one colour
had been red as well. However he had then had a completely different
experience. He had sensed something deep within me. Not just sensed but seen
and scented, a flower, soft, delicate and fragrant. For which I read weak and
vulnerable. We spoke about the difference but I was unwilling to take these
particular sensuous qualities as being part of me, as my association with them
equalled pain. And so began my most painful journey so far.
Later that day:
Seriously exhausted am I! I feel as if it was me
that got washed up today, by a very large and unforgiving wave. Peter saw a
part of me I don’t even acknowledge myself, let alone show anyone else. I don’t
do soft and delicate. I feel totally exposed, how and why did I let that show?
All that pain wrapped up in memories I do not wish to be reminded of. No wonder
I have been smoking, it is always a stress reaction for me. This is the pain
and discomfort I have been experiencing for nearly two weeks. I just can not
take this on board; I feel I have a real block.
It is no wonder I felt vulnerable last week and
reacted the way I did to perceived rejection. This particular aspect has been
in the background for a while. It is all tied up with previous relationships
when I allowed myself to be soft. Never again, I said to myself, I will not lay
myself open to hurt. So how come I have now, with so much to lose.
Journal entries:
Friday:
Bad night woke many times with abdominal cramps like
labour pains. Feeling sick and my stomach is demonstration of my delicate
nature as it has gone completely soft, I feel dreadful. I am taking the day off
sick, staying in bed, to work things out. It seems as if I have no option but
to take this new aspect on board, it is determined to make its presence known
one way or another. I guess I had better face up to it or I will be ill until
it wins. I have no doubt it will win in the end so I might as well give in
gracefully. I can but try anyway, if only I knew how. Will attempt to focus on
my ‘felt-sense’ of what the root is. Maybe I need to get in touch with the old
pain and let it go, transubstantiate it into tears. Or just being willing to
see myself in these terms will maybe help, willing submit.
Saturday:
Something seems to have shifted, I feel much better
if a bit ‘delicate’.
I feel as if I am recovering this new aspect of me
along with my ‘health’. I took a short walk this morning as I didn’t want to
overdo it. I can feel a difference inside me as I embody my soft nature. I took
more notice of the flowers on my walk, really looked at them.
This process feels like a constant baptism of fire.
It must be my inner connection with Peter which provides me with the strength
to keep with it. It is almost as if I am being purified by the combined
strength of our joined souls. The power of his soul and his deep knowledge of
his different aspects, gives me the space for those aspects within me to gain
recognition. It is like the best type of parenting.
Session Nineteen. Thursday 12th June.
Today we
talked about how to deal with waves of emotion. Peter suggested I practice ‘bodying’,
remembering to feel Head and Heart and Hara.
He reminded me to be ‘mindful’ by becoming aware of my inner body boundary. To
tune into my body ego as opposed to my mental ego. It is possible to transfer
emotional pain into a bodily pain, move it into your muscles, the discomfort
will soon disappear. He also suggested letting the process find expression in a
facial demeanour.
Sometimes the most prominent emotion is anger in
response to the process being triggered in the first place. You may feel hurt
or annoyed at being made to feel something. In this case Peter suggested
learning to accept the emotions and respond to these not to the ‘other’ who may
have triggered them. Own the emotions as belonging to you and to work with
them.
Peter reminded me that as long as we are thinking
‘about’ something we are not really thinking. It is about learning to be
‘aware’ of our thoughts without letting them focus us on an object. When you
remember to shift into your body then thoughts become something one is aware
of.
Winniccott was the first psychoanalyst to affirm
that somatic disease has a healing function to portray; it is your body forcing
you back to attend to it.
We should learn to take irritating emotions more
seriously, to body them, get to know the reasons, good reasons, and then take
them seriously. Seeing the process as a weakness and trying to dismiss it won’t
help, better to see emotions as a wake-up call. Awareness and mindfulness are
the keys to body awareness. Practice taking emotions seriously and take them
through the felt body. Eventually thoughts will become ‘things’ occurring in a
region of the felt body.
Today’s meditation took place in the lilac room
upstairs.
Peter wanted to build on last week’s exercise of
extending the inner self beyond the fleshly boundary we usually think of as our
‘self’. To do this I first had to move my awareness of my body inwards to my
inner body. The next step was to move my awareness as a ‘feeling body’ to my
physical boundary then to ‘feel’ beyond. It was the same as when I ‘reach into’
Peter but this time he wanted me to stretch myself further, into the colour; to
feel into the colour.
I was able to do it quite quickly and had a sense of
expansion and airiness. Unfortunately I had misunderstood what I was meant to
do. Thinking that I was to maintain my awareness at my periphery, I was unsure
what part I was supposed to ‘feel’ with, once my awareness was outside of what
I usually take as my ‘self’. It was amazing but I was stopping myself from
really experiencing it because I was trying to turn myself inside out. I had a
sense of where Peter was and could feel him beyond me but I was stopping this
awareness from coming back into me. He spoke about the light coming into our
awareness from beyond and I was able to feel it, just.
We talked about it afterwards and I realised what I
had been doing. The inner body is a boundary with an inside and an outside. The
quality of this boundary is essentially a field and it is ‘felt’ with
awareness; a field of awareness. I had been trying to keep myself on the other
side of the boundary. It had taken a lot of effort and I found it funny when I
realised I had been making it harder for myself than it needed to be.
Session Twenty. 19th June.
Notes of what Peter taught:
The body with which we feel ourselves and others is
our inwardly felt body.
There are degrees of embodiment.
Bottom line principles:
The more in touch we are with our bodies as a whole
the more we are in touch with ourselves as a whole.
Therefore if we are not in touch with our inwardly
felt body we can not connect inwardly with others.
If we are not feeling ourselves in a bodily way we
can not feel others in a bodily way.
Relation is bodily.
Our inner body is a field body, could be spelt
‘feel-d’, it is non localised and is the felt shape and substantiality of our
field of awareness.
As a field body it is unbounded by the flesh.
This is not a new thought philosophically. Our inner
body has its own felt boundary which is nothing more than a field boundary
being more or less permeable, more or less rigid, more or less containing.
Space is the spatial field of your awareness. There
is the outer field of our sensory awareness and the inner field of our self
awareness.
The exercises we have done together are to develop
the sense of the inner body as an awareness body. Using these exercises can
help people to expand their awareness of themselves.
‘Dasein’ – being here/there, ask how much is this
person really ‘there’. To what degree of embodied presence, in a bodily way and
in touch with their own inwardly felt body are they?
Ask where is your awareness now?
In what part of your body is it concentrated, how
much and where?
In introducing inner body work use phrases like ‘be
aware of ….’, ‘move your awareness to …..’:
…Inner space,
…Surface, skin,
…Space around your body,
…Upper body as a whole, above the waist.
…Lower body as a whole, waist down.
…Centre in lower abdomen
There are regions and spaces both inner and outer;
move your awareness to or remove your awareness from…..
There are simple in roads???, for example: ‘feel’:
Your centre of awareness,
Your chest as a hollow vessel,
The inner space of your head, (or chest or abdomen,
) as a whole space,
The entire space around you.
A consciousness is a field pattern of awareness. As
a perceptual pattern of awareness each consciousness has a different pattern of
awareness.
When we study something we are seeing how it appears
to us, not how it ‘is’: a patterned field of awareness.
The whole of reality is simply the outer face of our
own larger field of awareness with its qualities, tonalities and patterns.
The inner body as a formative body: if feeling is
something we do, what then are feelings? They are field qualities of awareness,
a particular ‘way’ in which we feel ourselves. That is what makes feelings
fundamentally different from emotions. These field qualities also have a basic tone – they are tonal qualities of
awareness, like a qualities of a person’s tone of voice.
Whenever listening to a person’s voice, to music or
any sound, one is hearing ‘tones’ which have a particular ‘quality’ for
example: clanging, metallic like mast wires. Voice tones can have ‘qualities’;
warm, full, hollow, watery, airy, light or weighty. Somehow all ‘sensual’
qualities are qualities of ‘tonality’.
With the formative body, the inner body; we give
‘form’ to different feeling tones, we shape, form and experience their sensuous
qualities. A feeling tone is nothing but a field tone of awareness, a quality
of awareness.
Facial expressions give form to feeling tones. A
tone is essentially formed through stretching something – inner tension which
leads to muscular tension, i.e. ‘given form to’. Body identity is a resonation
between feeling tone and form. There is also a feed-back loop where form feeds
and amplifies the feelings it give form to.
This is the creative process.
A mood is a tone of feeling with sensual qualities
that tune and colour our whole awareness of ourselves, other people and the
world.
Sound: what is a sound? It is a shaped envelope of
tone. We give form to feeling tone, so what is a feeling tone? It is a sound.
How do we give form to feeling tone? With a voice which uses sound to modulate
a feeling tone.
Any 3D form is a visible sound, a visible shaping of
a field tone of awareness: a feeling tone that in turn gives certain sensual
qualities of that feeling tone.
Paintings give form to a pattern of feeling tones,
music is a patterned tone, in doing so they bring out certain qualities - a
mutual interrelation. Creative expression gives form to a certain mood:
patterned tonalities of awareness. The pattern can be 2D or 3D, as in
sculpture, similarly a sound can be a 3D form.
We also talked today about the amount of weight I
have lost since seeing Peter: at least three stones since January. It has been
a natural process and although what I eat has changed I have not been dieting
or ‘trying’ to lose it. Only this last week several women I know have come up
to me and commented on the change. Although I have had people notice before now
it seemed strange to me that suddenly more people were commenting.
I was telling Peter how I am always asked how I have
done it and I always explain my inner change as being the starting point. I
usually mention my work and meditation practice with Peter and depending on who
I am speaking to I may talk about the deeply spiritual nature of The Work.
The odd thing
about all the changes I have experienced is that I feel more myself than ever
before. My inner body awareness has increased my confidence in who I am, even
though I have realised that this ‘I’ is constantly changing and developing. I
feel as though a weight has been lifted from my whole being not just my body. I
feel more comfortable in my skin than I thought was possible.
Learning all about the sensuous nature of the inner
body has had a direct impact on how I feel about my own sensuousness. The deep
well of love which exists through the portal of my deeper self has been feeding
me. My soul connection with Peter has opened the door for me to walk through
whenever I remember to do so.
The role Peter has played in this transformation is
crucial: his interest in me, his patience with me, his steadiness in steering
me towards greater self-awareness and inner body knowledge, all this and much,
much more.
The way he is able to accept whatever aspects of myself
come to light has enabled me to accept them too. The simple fact that he looked
into my soul the very first time I allowed him to look into my eyes and drew
forth love and healing. That he was then able to guide me into contact with
this endless being and provided the frame work for me to understand what I was
experiencing, recognising and teaching me the sound of my inner name, Abaie,
providing me with a key to unlock the lids of all kinds of treasure chests.
Resonation:
We sat today without Peter making any suggestions on
the direction we should take. He was silent throughout. We began the descent
into the dark space of our inner beings.
Unusually I saw a face change on Peter and saw him as a pirate captain
of a ship, on the search for treasure.
As we went deeper still I had the image in my mind’s
eye of him as a mountain, eons old, solid and steadfast. I experienced myself
as melt water cutting through his surface, carving out the very rock of his
being, making my mark on his landscape. I tumbled over his edge as an endless
waterfall, travelled to the sea, was evaporated into water vapour, turned into
snow which fell over the top of the mountain to begin the cycle all over again.
Meanwhile Peter stood firm, just being ‘there’.
As we sat I went through the usual steps: turning my
gaze inwards, at other times projecting myself into the black pupil of Peter’s
eye. At one point I became aware that he was not being as active as usual, he
sat regarding me and I took on the same aspect and expression. As the
connection was amplified it felt as if we were looking at our self or looking
through the same eyes. It was strange; as if we were one being looking at it’s
self.
There came a point when the tracking voice in the
back of my head fell silent and I knew we were very deep in another dimension.
I felt myself expand beyond measure and watched as Peter turned his head to the
left. I closed my eyes but the connection between us did not break or alter in
any way, I could still feel him. After some moments we reconnected our eyes and
Peter ended the resonation. We sat opposite each other for a few more minutes
returning from wherever we had been. I reached out once more with my feeling
self and Peter smiled as he felt my touch.
When we spoke about our experiences Peter told me he
had not been working at his usual level however this did not seem to change our
ability to resonate into a very deep place. When he had turned his head to the
side he was experiencing coiling as a huge black serpent. He also knew we were
still connected without eye contact. It felt like a very profound contact we
had made.
Session Twenty One. 3rd July.
A lot of today’s session was taken up with talking
about my home situation and my increasing need for my own space. Peter’s last
e-mail had touched on the subject of a different ‘place’ to dwell, a palace for
the senses. I have made the decision to put a bed in my workroom when I return
from staying at my friend’s house. Over the next three weeks, during the times
I go home to be with my daughter, I intend to reorganize this room and create a
sanctuary and spiritually focused space.
We also talked about not get ‘drawn out’ by the
other in meditation. Peter suggested thinking in terms of inner awareness as
being a ‘blob’: parts get drawn into things or people. But what happens if they
get cut off? This could lead to fragmentation. In the case of ‘alien
abductions,’ parts of inner awareness get ‘drawn out’ by technology, especially
television.
In thinking about the essence of mediation we are
looking to develop an unbroken mindfulness of one’s inwardly felt body. Given
that the inwardly felt body is our awareness body, our own thoughts can be
experienced as an abducting force.
If we think in terms of our ‘periphery’, then
meditation is about coming back to body-time from the world. But how can we avoid being abducted at all
times and in all situations?
Peter suggested we sit opposite each other: He
instructed me to feel the surface of my face, then the whole of my head,
feeling it being covered with a membrane which slips down over the surface of
my body. Then to feel myself sitting within the deep water of amniotic fluid,
coming up to my waist. While sitting in this fluid to then concentrate on my
breathing, each out breath going deeper within my inner being, with each in
breath to draw up the fluid into my being; For my awareness to become like a fish;
able to swim from hara to mind within
this fluid. We sat together in this fluid both full with it and fully within
it.
We then resumed our conversation, this time I asked
Peter about what do in resonation when faces ‘appear’ on my partner’s face. He
suggested I feel the unique tonality as I tune into a particular face. To then
hold it within, riding it and reading the resonance. When the resonation is
over and sitting with eyes closed, to then hold the image in my mind’s eye and
see what it brings up within me. He suggested I remember to ‘mirror’ the
particular gleam in the eye that accompanies the face, he called this the
‘emitting expression’.
We then had a discussion on the term ‘New Yoga’.
Peter had written something and gave it to me to read. He mentioned some
discomforts he had and I found myself finally telling him about my own feelings
of reservation about the term. That I have kept quiet because of my lack of
knowledge on the subject of yoga. I had practiced some yoga years ago but knew
very little on the history or philosophy. Some of Peter’s writings had
enlightened me but I was still left with a slight feeling of discomfort with
the term.
I now understood Peter’s use, but still felt there
was something missing. There was something about the re-invention of products
used as a marketing ploy, in terms of something being ‘new and improved’. I was
also concerned that I am typical in my limited understanding of what ‘old yoga’
is and therefore representative of how others might react to it. We didn’t come
to any conclusion with our talk but it was clearly in Peter’s mind when we sat
to meditate.
Session Twenty One. Resonation:
I really don’t know how I can even being to describe
today’s connection. I have never known such blissful inner sensation, filling
me up. Such sustained pleasure. I was almost melting inside but also shaking
with the intensity of our combined intent.
At the early stages I was aware of working quite
hard. I kept getting brief waves of intense sensation, blissful but brief; each
time I extended my feeling body. Then I found I couldn’t extend it so I
concentrated on going deeper within, using the warm amniotic fluid I had sat
myself in, reaching up to my waist. As I breathed in I felt it rise within me,
as I breathed out I sank deeper into my own interiority. I felt my awareness
fluid within my body.
I became aware of intense changes on Peter’s face, I
realised he was speaking to me but it felt like a different language. I
wondered if it was Sumari or Shum – what Peter has described as the
true language of the soul and the source of all languages, a language of inner
sounds. There was an intensity within each sound and rather than try to
understand it I just opened myself to hear it inside. I allowed the silent
sounds to resound within me. To do this I checked that my awareness was still
within my hara and opened my upper
body as Peter had spoken about before. I opened myself to receive him.
All of today’s meditation was at a very deep level
of consciousness and my tracking voice was switched off quite early on.
Consequently I cannot recall the finer details of the different stages we when
through although it fell roughly into three separate stages.
In the middle stage I was aware of a change in
Peter’s facial expression, it was softer and the changes were slower and less
intense. He seemed to be smiling at me with a welcoming expression. So I
mentally checked myself again from head to toe and using my feeling body as a
sense organ, in touch with my whole body as awareness, I felt my way forward to
make contact with Peter’s feeling body.
A wave of sensual feeling took over my whole body,
my inner feeling body, I could sense his soul and knew ourselves to be blended.
I almost felt drawn through him. I could feel the embrace with such intensity
it was almost as though I was being held within his arms. And it lasted, was
sustained by my intention. My abdominal muscles were so tight the tension
rippled through me.
Wave upon wave of blissful inner sensation; at one
point I could feel myself as the colour red and the heat generated by our
joining was palpable. I was able to sustain my whole body awareness, fixing my
eyes in his, losing myself within his black pupil, my intent fuelled by a new
power. Resonating with him, mirroring his expression I was awakening something
or someone new within my inner being. The sounds of our melding crashing deep
within and reforming a new song, a new aspect – ‘being’ created; we were
spiritually in tune with each other. And it felt absolutely wonderful. I could
have stayed there for ever but Peter broke the contact.
As we sat back I was aware of still being in
resonation with him. I felt insatiable and my love for him shone from my eyes,
inviting him back into them. And back he came, our feeling bodies and whole
body awareness once more extended towards each other. This time there was a
more gentle connection as we smiled our pleasure and melded our beings, relishing
in each other’s feelings, knowing how deep our soul connection is and taking
great delight in it.
Session Twenty Two. 10th July.
Today’s session was mostly talking, I had been
staying with a friend and met her friend who was in need of some spiritual
counselling. I told Peter about my conversations with him and his receptivity
to Peter’s work and writings.
I spoke at some length about my children and being a
mum. Ben had the hump with me because although I had turned up for a cricket
match I had sat in the car with Cella and Charlotte and watched him play. He
had wanted me to be on the field and was not happy about my reasons for staying
in the car.
Peter talked about the inner umbilical cord, being
able to attend to the children’s inner feelings about situations they may not
like. I had ‘good reasons’ for my actions but was I able to ‘see’ Ben’s
feelings? I spoke about my conflict of not being ‘child-centred’ and he asked
what I meant by that. I am not one to do things with my children although I
always try to be around for them if they need me. Peter pointed out that doing
things is not necessary for being able to be in tune with them, something I
realised I am fully able to do.
I mentioned feeling overwhelmed by Charlotte when
she was little; that I had a physical connection to her pain and had needed, to
some extent, to cut off from her for my own protection. She is similar to me in
her emotional sensitivity, thin skinned. I had experienced difficulty with the
demands she made on my time and energy. I had always compared my parenting to
that of my husband’s and usually judged myself as less able.
My talk with Peter today helped me to see that I am
a better mum than I previously thought. I was not damaged by my own parents’
lack of demonstration of their feelings, it has made me more open to the
feelings of my own children and more able to hold them physically and
emotionally. In recognising since working with Peter that I am unscathed by my
upbringing I have no need to worry that I will damage my children. These
insights have had a profound effect on the way I view myself.
We didn’t have time for a full resonation today but
Peter invited me to make an inner connection with him. So I reached out with my
feeling body, after checking my whole body awareness. The process is so familiar
to me now and last week’s spiritual experience with Peter had brought forth a
new power in my own abilities. He could feel my contact and brought his chair
around to face me. As we blended together he asked me what I had done to make
the connection and I explained.
He took me through some sound work using the name of
Mahakala, the black one. It was quite a
powerful experience and I found myself going quite deep within my inner being.
Notes from Session Twenty Three, 17th
July.
Sounds and Mantra:
Mantra – liberation from the mind – root meaning.
Thoughts arise from words – yet we can sense meaning
in the very sounds of words. We can get beyond the mental dimension of the word
and into the felt bodily sense of its sounds.
Mantra is normally understood as the repetition of a
word or phrase. This is not the essence as Peter understands it, instead it can
lead to a deeper understanding of language. The meaning of sounds and mantra
are deeply connected.
An example: someone muttering under their breath,
preparing to swear, you can see it in their facial expression, their mouth
holding the word, on the verge of expelling it, they are bodying a mantra, the
bodily shape and form of the word held back. Bodying is the opposite of
somatising, it is not symbolising or expressing something as a cathartic
release.
Mudra of the face: the gesture or disposition, the
expression of a word or sound. For example the different ‘meanings’ of the ‘m’
sound, the different emotional tone is being bodied through a ‘mudra’ of the
face – personification – mask – of the ‘m’. You can observe the difference
between an ‘m’ of pleasure or agreement, even to what level of intensity that
agreement may be: an ‘m’ of ‘yes I can see your point but I’m not sure’, to an
‘m’ of ‘yes of course, I totally agree’. Or perhaps an ‘m’ of real pleasure or
ecstasy against an ‘m’ of that feels nice.
A facial expression is a letter of the soul behind
which is a sound imminent within it, just like a letter is the silent face of a
sound or image of a sound when written down. There is a very old understanding
that if you were able to utter every sound of the alphabet, simultaneously, you
would be able to create the human form.To identify the mantra of a word you
start with a particular speech sound or syllable, turn it into a mudra of the
face, without uttering it, experience it permeating your entire felt body with
its particular felt quality.
Onomatopoeic words or clusters of such words can
help to identify its tonality. For example the letter ‘v’ – vigour, vibration,
wave, resolve, verve, nerve. Only through such a cluster can you get a
qualitative essence of the sound. You can’t use a word to describe a letter
because that word would contain other letters in it. Although you can select
one word which comes closest eg. V= vibration.
M= womb, warm, permeate, melt, meld, meditate,
mantra, meaning, muse.
B= boundary, body, balloon, bubble, burst, boast,
bloat, burden, bold, and contra – embarrass.
In looking for why particular words have their
meanings you will always find some whose given sense are diametrically opposed
eg. Vibrant/vexed, love/evil.
The meaning of words as sounds transcends their
meanings as words, it is more primordial, more basic. Which raises the question
- what happens if we work with nonsense words or poetry? And why is it that words
like names are significant? Because it is the inner resonance as sounds which
are important.
Vowel sounds also work as mantras, but it is not
simply their qualities but their movement of awareness, the descending out
breath and descending inner voice tone. With silent sounds we hear them with
our inner ear and sound them with our inner voice, in doing so we are bodying a
feeling tone.
Therefore we can use sounds to body and attract
different aspects, personal or divine. The sounds themselves are the link
between the inner reality and outer.
The soul is a whole alphabet and our given names are
just one personification of our souls. Each ‘name’ is put together with basic
elements which have the nature of sounds. Sound is in some way a shaping of a feeling
tone, with substantiality and sensuous qualities.
Mantra is feeling the sensuous qualities of sounds
as shaping, in a bodily way, the feeling tones. By giving bodily form to a
feeling tone by sound, the feeling tone is amplified by resonance. You become
the mantra you are sounding, in turn, it turns your body into a vehicle which
attracts the spirit and gives shape to the feeling tone of a particular god or
goddess, animal spirit etc.
Mantra is the key to morphing, shape shifting one’s
inner body, by using sound to give bodily form to feeling tones and amplifying
with resonance: by attending to your face and mouth, sensing the formed
expression of a particular feeling tone and sensing and hearing it as a sound.
H= holy, whole, head, heart, hara, halo, hallowed, hall – a sense of space – hale –
sound/healthy, inhale and exhale.
Kali – consumes all and devours it, takes it back
in. All words to describe her have an ‘l’ sound: disillusionment; emotionally
expressing an experience.
L= lull, loll, lullaby, leave off, lazy - dissolving
into formless darkness.
Resonation.
This has to be the hardest resonation to record
since Peter found our Byzantine past life connection.
It all seemed very deep and yet I was in my head all
the time, observing my process and maintaining almost constant whole body
sensing.
It seemed at time as if Peter was allowing me full
access to his soul, revealing aspect upon aspect. I saw the shaman at least
twice and many other dimensions of him. I wondered if he was letting me explore
my new found power and giving it full range.
Several times I drew my gaze within to fall deeper
and deeper into my own unbounded interiority. I could feel myself descending,
dissolving. In the same way our bodily boundaries were also dissolved as I was
very aware of Peter’s whole body at the same time as my own. This was new to me
and it only occurred to me to sense this since our contact on the beach last
Sunday, (when I had met with Peter to talk about some work I had been doing.)
I was not always clear how much or how often Peter
was active because at times I felt as if I was somehow leading the way. I was
aware at other times that his intention was very strong and the sensations
between us were very powerful.
My awareness of him was very intense at times and
there was an erotic quality to our melding. I was at one point burning with the
colour red and I felt as if my face must be very flushed. I could feel my love
swell out towards him as I simultaneously drew into myself as much of him as I
could contain, which was quite a considerable amount.
Several times we sat back and regarded each other in
an almost emotionless way. At times I felt like a goddess, was bodying some
divine aspect and my awareness was pure power. We moved in so close at other
times we were almost touching. Many times I found myself mirroring his
expressions and movements and could feel the amplification in our combined
beings.
At one point I was aware of singing scales, silently
within my inner being, the sounds just arose through me and descended again, up
and down several times. I felt as if I was somehow playing the sounds of his
soul. My scent of him was there very early on, usually I experience this much
later. Several times our breathing was quite rapid and at others it almost
stopped.
He broke our
eye contact but even with our eyes closed we stayed in resonation with each
other. We reconnected our eyes again and the tone of our connection was
different. Having sat back Peter moved forward again, putting his hands
together he moved them towards my abdomen and I could feel him penetrate my
feeling body, it was a very pleasurable sensation and I felt myself respond,
somehow growing inside and I bodied this, sitting upright, swelling. He bowed
his head towards me, twice and although part of me was bemused by this
behaviour, the part I was deeply connected to in my soul understood the action.
I saw him as a much older man, his hair was grey but his skin was darker,
Indian. The expression in his eyes melted me inside. I was in contact with a
very powerful aspect and felt the divinity flow through me.
We had sat together for 45 minutes and I took a long
time to come back to a familiar sense of myself.
Session Twenty Four. 24th July, notes.
Most of today’s conversation was personal material
mainly to do with my recent decision to finally leave my husband. My marriage
had been dead for years but I made the choice to stay because of the children,
knowing I would tolerate the situation until the pain of staying was greater
than the pain of leaving. My work with Peter had opened my eyes to see things
differently. I was so much stronger within myself and had a clearer idea of
what I wanted from life. He had helped me to see a whole new way of relating to
someone. The way things were with Steve were no longer acceptable to me. He had
never been one to talk about things and had little interest in me. Conversation
had dried up to such an extent we hardly spoke to each other at all. As I had a
wonderful group of women friends this was tolerable but the situation at home
was starting to impact on the children and I realised it was time to take
action.
Peter and I also spoke about the personal element of
our relationship and the impact on it from our work together. At times the
revolutionary difference conflicted with my old patterns and those of the
society we live in. In the past this had thrown up and brought into view these
patterns but with Peter’s help I had cleared most of these away and was staying
more whole body aware. However I never knew what was still left and had to keep
alert and aware of changes the resonation could cause in its power to wash up
debris for review.
Last week’s resonation had been particularly
powerful and incredibly intimate. Partly due to my decision to start a new life
with my children but mostly because of the depth of my feeling towards Peter, I
had allowed myself to think things may change between us. Peter put me straight on that one, yet again,
pointing out the importance of what we are doing. This work needs to get out to
a wider audience and this is where our energies need to be focused. We cannot
allow ourselves to live on a honeymoon island is what he said. (Author’s note
to Peter; in my poem I was talking about a holiday; I would ‘fly you away’ to
rest and recuperate, you know, not keep you to myself!! It was written in
response to your fatigue. Just in case this is what prompted your comment.)
Something about our combined soul bodies was opening
inner dimensions with rich seeds for Peter to gather and with his incredible
mind, harvest material for The New Yoga. I was constantly impressed with the
volume and quality of his writings after our adventures in inner space. My own
reactions and struggles with the changes providing material for my writings.
Provided, of course I kept myself focused and not drift into the world of
fantasy. Still some of us are quicker learners than others and Peter is just
phenomenally fast.
Resonation.
Partly due to my recent decision and I think observing
my response to the rest of our conversation, Peter suggested I might like to
use today’s meditation to resonate with myself.
So we sat in our usual positions and he reminded me to show him on my
face what was going on inside me. Centering my attention within, getting in
touch with my inner body awareness, I began to allow how I was feeling to come
into focus; to come to the surface of my awareness and show through my eyes.
I sensed sadness, let it fill me, felt its quality,
knew it was residue from the collapse of my marriage. A reflection of all the
tears I had cried over the years. Within this sadness was disappointment, I
felt the quality of that too. There was a past element and a present one, in
response to our conversation. There was also a feeling of struggle, again past
and present. Keeping my gaze turned inwards I allowed this mixed bag to roll
around inside me; turning it over and looking at it from all angles. Showing
Peter how I was feeling through my face and eyes I saw his reflection and
resonation, noticed the amplification in myself. Time passed.
He was looking at me with such tenderness and
understanding that I couldn’t help but reach out to him with my whole body
awareness. By this time I was in touch with the depth of my feeling for him and
I showed him how I felt. As our souls joined in a gentle nurturing way, we drew
in closer enjoying the feelings aroused within by our connection.
Somewhere along the way I felt an inner resolve and
fierceness, showed this through my eyes, my gaze intensifying as I bored my
feelings into the black hole of Peter’s eye; letting him know the strength
within me. Seemingly from nowhere, I was taken with the idea to oscillate my
feeling body. The image of a jellyfish floated through my mind’s eye. In this
way I began to push out then draw back my sensory awareness, washing it out to
Peter and back again, many times, in waves. I was watching his face and eyes
closely and saw he could feel what I was doing.
He seemed to be enjoying the sensation so I
intensified my gaze. I was drawing deep within my inner self, turning my gaze
within a few times but mostly fixed it with deep intent on Peter’s eye. I felt
deeply in touch with the whole strength of my sensual feeling awareness of both
of us as well as the depth of my feeling towards him. The bliss I was
experiencing had a new tonality to it, more inner body. I was aware of drawing
him into my eyes and also of him filling me with his awareness. I kept in touch
with my whole body through out and it was a wonderful experience. Time passed.
Then Peter sat back and drew his hands down his
face, I thought our meditation was over but we stayed in resonation. He sat
upright and relinked my eyes with his. He seemed to grow before my eyes, even
his head seemed larger, his eyes were wide and I took up the same position in
response. I am a bit hazy on the details but I think we sat like this for a
while and I experienced a sense of spaciousness behind me. Next his eyes
narrowed and with a very slight move forwards I felt myself drawn towards him,
in and down. I found myself flow in time with him as he sat back again, within
the space. Then back in again and down in a rhythm of movement that was mostly
inner body and felt through the feeling body.
He sat back again looking at me in an almost cold
and detached way but with an increase in intensity, suddenly I was aware of
something like a wave emanating as if from Peter. I opened my feeling body
further and was taken completely by surprise, rising through me with incredible
intensity; waves of pleasure like I had never known. They rode through my
feeling body and I could feel my eyes widen in further surprise as I was hit
again and again and again. My breathing was fast in response, as I rode upon
the waves of rapture. Through the detached look on his face I could see Peter
enjoying my reaction to him. It seemed to go on and on and was fantastic. I was
pushed back within myself and couldn’t tell where in my body it was coming from
because it was a whole bliss body experience, very sensual and it just kept
happening, gradually ebbing away leaving me breathless with the excitement.
When we spoke about it later Peter explained the
later stage was due to him embodying the word KAULA, using it as MANTRA. He
broke down the sounds and suggested I practise on him. So we spent the rest of
the time doing just this. KA the kingly upright spine, the ‘k’ sound held in
the throat, at the same time the ‘ah’ of upward spatiality given inner voice.
Full MUDRA of the face, eyes wide, lips poised to speak the ‘c’ but never doing
so. The sound of the word heard only in the inner ear.
UL the towards-the-other motion; eyes narrowed and
lips pursed, loosely.
LA tongue moved to the upper pallet, gently held
behind the teeth, moving downwards with your awareness, sinking.
Powerful sounds!
Session Twenty Five. 31st July 03.
The first part of today’s talk was about Ben. Last
Sunday he had misunderstood an e-mail from Peter to me. Ben decided to make
contact with Peter in a very physical way leaving Peter with a black eye! With his guidance I had spoken to Ben and
explained the situation to him. He had thought we were having an affair as I
had been keeping things to myself about what exactly Peter and I were involved
in. In his twelve year old mind he had put two and two together and made five.
I had also explained to him the distance between his father and I had been
developing for years and had nothing to do with Peter.
On the Monday he had met with Peter to apologise and
they had talked for over two hours. Peter had spoken to me on the phone
afterwards and today went over some of his observations. He felt Ben has an
unusual mind and is a special soul needing nurture. He talked about ways I may
be able to help him and various material he could perhaps read.
We also spoke some more about my feelings towards
Steve and his towards me. I had been surprised that he had lost his attraction
for me four years ago. For the past few years I had been feeling guilty because
of how I had felt. I now experienced some anger that he had not been honest
with me. My ego also experienced some hurt and was questioning my
attractiveness generally. No one seemed to ‘want’ me. Peter had explained that
Steve’s feelings and process were nothing to do with my being attractive or
not. I understood what he meant and my
ego had recovered.
I spoke to Peter about a book I had been dipping
into; ‘The Myth of the Goddess’ and how the authors found common links in all
the myths they researched. There wasn’t room in the book to examine Asian or
African myths as there was so much material otherwise. The chapters I had read
were about the Gnostics and the revival of the goddess in the middle ages and
how the Catholic church had led a crusade against the Cathars. There was also
much about Sophia, Kabbalism and the Shekhinah, the Gnostic gospels and the
documents found at Nag Hammadi. The message I had picked up from my reading was
the missing element of the divine feminine within Christianity and therefore in
much of our society today.
“The Shekhinah is immanent in the human soul as its
divine ‘ground’ or radiant ‘body’, and can be revealed personally to men and
women. She is their deepest self, the holy presence of ‘the glory of God’
within them. The sacred marriage in Kabbalism is, as it is in Gnosticism as
well as in mystical Christianity and Islam, the union of the soul with this
Holy Spirit.”
“Life, or creation, is conceived in the divine union
between Yahweh and the Shekhinah. Sexual imagery and the image of light are
used in text after text to show how ‘the rays which emerges from Nothing, is as
it were, sown into the “celestial mother”… out of whose womb the Sefiroth
(creative energies) spring forth, as King and Queen, son and daughter.’”
“When the Ark was placed in the Temple built by
Solomon, the Shekhinah dwelt there. However, she disappeared at the time of the
destruction of the first Temple (586 BC), when the Ark was lost and the Jews
were taken into captivity in Babylon, and she did not return with them to Israel
at the end of their exile in 538 BC. She will not return until the coming of
the Messiah, and she can not return until the broken unity of the godhead is
restored through her reunion with her divine bridegroom.”
I had been struck by the links in what I had been
reading and the Work Peter and I had been exploring. The connections we had
made through resonation with our divine aspects, our union of these divine
aspects as the sacred marriage. I felt it was no coincidence that we had chosen
male and female bodies this life time with which to rediscover and pass on what
we found. That we had been using the mantra of Kali representing the dark womb
from which all life springs with the penetrating serpentine light of awareness,
Shiva. That together we represented the much needed balance and combination (if
with a somewhat limited perception ), of masculine and feminine.
But most importantly was that what we can do so can
others. That together we are plotting a path for others to follow. The power of
New Gnosis is there for all to discover within themselves and thereby reconnect
with the source of the divine in All That Is; the third presence in all of mine
and Peter connections???
We also spoke about self-awareness and the
unconscious recognition of those on the receiving end of dual awareness. Peter
was keen to make the point that through silence and deep listening we are able
to communicate to others. I was wondering if my own well developed level of
self awareness had made a difference to my receptivity to Peter and all his
practises, ideas and teachings. He was sure this was so. During our session
today I had been aware on several occasions of Peter sensing me, I could feel
his inner touch. Obviously the more aware I was of my whole body the more aware
I was of this happening. But even without such development others would be
affected by the same ability, they just would not sense it in the same way.
Something I had realised a very long time ago was
the power of self awareness to remove judgments of others. If you know yourself
you are less likely to condemn in others what you understand as part of
yourself. In really listening to others, in seeing and accepting them as they
really are, you pass that message of acceptance on to them. This deepens the level
at which you relate because they know you won’t judge them. I also knew that
the people I work with had benefited from my work with Peter. My relationships
with them had more depth and understanding as a direct result.
Peter had planned for me to go through the Head, Heart and Hara meditation with him
again today. But some residue of self consciousness got in the way. Maybe
because I was not prepared for his request or maybe I had too much on my plate
emotionally I am not sure. But I felt like a rabbit caught in head lights; I
froze. I likened it to a driving test, but my immobilisers had been activated.
Peter explained that it was not a test and I could approach it any way I
wanted. He just wanted us to go through it together to be sure I understood the
various steps.
But I was stuck and could not seem to shift myself.
For some reason I could not just open my mouth and begin the meditation. Peter
tried various tacks but I couldn’t be shifted. In the end he said we could try
next week but I was puzzled by my response and asked if we could resonate with
it.
Resonation:
I began as last week by exploring my felt sense of
how I was feeling. No words came through the darkness to clarify the situation.
I began to feel as if there was nothing to it after all. Although I felt I was
at quite a deep level and was searching myself, nothing was all I was sensing.
I could feel Peter sensing me and checking my whole body awareness I opened my
feeling body to his. After this everything is a bit of a blur. I remember the
usual lovely feelings of being melded with Peter, of being drawn in closer and
us smiling at each other, regarding each other how we usually do. But today the
experience was even deeper than usual. It had a familiar and comfortable
feeling to it and very pleasant.
At one point Peter’s whole body jolted and I jumped
in response. I was temporarily shocked but refocused my awareness and sank
deeper within myself in resonation with him. I think it was then I recognised,
or thought I had, the Shaman but there was a different aspect to Peter’s
features I felt I hadn’t seen before. Time passed in this stage as we floated
about in the dark depths of our inner beings. I was very aware of the scent of
Peter’s soul and also saw him inhale mine.
Peter made me jump a second time, this was when he
suddenly raised his right arm. He also indicated lower with his left arm. I
felt myself stretch my feeling body in both directions in response. Feeling the
vast expanse of space all around us I sat back and the posture reminded me of
last week and the sounds Peter had been using. I decided to try them for
myself: KALI and was sure Peter could sense it. As I watched his face to mirror
his expression I became aware he was sounding KAULA and heard the same sounds
in my inner ear as I also ‘spoke’ the same mantra. The amplification was very
powerful and our breathing became shallow and rapid in response to each other.
We revelled in the effect we each were having on the other and very nice it was
too, similar to last week but with even more depth of soul.
I began to ‘hear’ more sounds rising from deep
within me; sh, ha, are ones I remember but my only clear recollection was
Sh’meyah, one of Peter’s inner names. I guessed it must be Sumari I was ‘speaking’. The sounds were soft and gentle, soothing
and lovely. After this point I draw a blank, I have no idea what happened next.
My only memory is a beautiful sense of peace. I believe I was in a very deep
place totally joined with Peter, possibly I was wrapping my soul around his or he
was so deep within me, I cannot be sure. I only know it was lovely, intense and
absolutely wonderful. Oddly enough although we were very deep I found it quite
easy to return to myself. This maybe because I was so perfectly in tune with
Peter I resonated with him as he drew himself back into the present. Everything
was perfectly seamless.
I am always amazed at the brilliance of your coorespondance transcripts. They inspire and ignite my imagination... I look forward to finishing this blog/book of Tantrik Sexuality!
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